He’s Trying to Stimulate Her Clitoris, but She’s Not Cumming

His girlfriend enjoys oral sex, and he enjoys giving it to her. But regardless of the pleasure it gives both of them, she doesn’t orgasm. Ever. She’s frustrated, and he’s blaming himself. What these two don’t know is that her clitoris is insensitive, and trying new techniques as well as an herbal remedy will help restore feeling and improve their intimacy.
Case #: 1147
Concern：
My girlfriend loves when I go down on her, and while I’m giving her oral, she enjoys it. However, right when she is about to cum, she seems to have an orgasm but doesn’t. The feelings go away, and her clit becomes too sensitive to touch. She has been getting really frustrated. What am I doing wrong at the climax that causes this?
Discussion：
It sounds like you’re doing everything right in terms of trying to give pleasure to your girlfriend. This can be difficult at best because no how-to manual exists for making love to a woman. Every female’s body is different, and what feels good to one might not satisfy another.
The clitoris has been called everything from a love button to a woman’s hot spot. These terms are amusing but diminish the organ’s complexity. They also make light of the difficulty a woman can have in reaching orgasm. So for now, we’ll start with a short lesson in female anatomy.
Examining the Clitoris
During oral sex, you are stimulating your girlfriend’s clitoris. This highly sensitive organ is also extremely unique. It contains thousands of nerve endings that, when touched in the right way, send shivers of delight down a woman’s spine. It is the only organ between both men and women designed to do nothing but incite pleasure.
Sexual arousal brings many changes to a woman’s body. Her heartbeat quickens, breathing intensifies and muscles clench. Meanwhile, her genitals – both the clitoris and vagina – swell in response to increased blood flow. The vagina continues to swell as orgasm becomes imminent. But the clitoris retracts under its hood to prevent overstimulation.
A woman often prefers her clitoris to remain untouched after orgasm. So many nerves are packed into such a small area that, once stimulated, they become pretty jumpy. Touching the clitoris at this point only causes discomfort, not pleasure.
Getting to the Root of Insensitivity
As you know, the land of female sensitivity is not always perfect. Some women lack healthy sexual responses and therefore do not orgasm. This phenomenon is largely attributed to psychological factors or relationship problems – health care professionals describe the clitoris as a typically normal organ that only becomes faulty from rigorous sex or over-masturbation.
But in reality, everything from menstruation to birth control pills can interfere with the clitoris and a woman’s orgasm. Men and women alike rely on hormones to induce sexual arousal, desire and orgasm. When hormones levels are off, sexual responses can change dramatically.
Technique is another factor to consider. Many couples get into ruts that lead to boredom or dissatisfaction in the bedroom. They find something that feels good and continue doing that over and over, but the body craves new stimulation. You and your girlfriend should therefore explore other ways to enjoy sex.
Also make sure your touch is firm enough to stimulate the clitoris but light enough so your girlfriend continues to want more. This is the key to bringing her to orgasm. But don’t expect overnight success – sexual satisfaction requires time and patience. You must make your girlfriend feel comfortable enough to share with you what feels good and what doesn’t. If she takes the same slow and caring approach with you, your lovemaking will know no bounds.
Increasing Her Pleasure
Giving repeated oral sex to your girlfriend to no avail will only add to her insensitivity. What you really need to do is ignite passion and rejuvenate her clitoris. You can do this with an all-natural herbal formula designed specifically for females. (TRY: Natural Clitoral Revitalization Remedy) With ingredients like Dong Quai and Horny Goat Weed, it is blended to repair damaged nerves and nourish neurotransmitters. In short, this formula will help your girlfriend achieve orgasm. It will also help eliminate any barriers separating the two of you from astonishing sex.

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