Losing Your Flow – From Mr. Happy to Mr. Softy

I'm a 44 year old male and I'm in good health. Okay, I lied, I have one problem. I have really weak erections that don't seem to last more than a minute even. I don't know what's wrong with me. I haven't done any drugs in my past and drink very lightly once in a blue moon. I really hope this isn't the end of my sexual life. I can still get erections, just have a problem keeping them. Please help me.

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I'm a 44 year old male and I'm in good health. Okay, I lied, I have one problem. I have really weak erections that don't seem to last more than a minute even. I don't know what's wrong with me. I haven't done any drugs in my past and drink very lightly once in a blue moon. I really hope this isn't the end of my sexual life. I can still get erections, just have a problem keeping them. Please help me.

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Years ago, I went on a hot air balloon ride over Southern California. Well, actually I wasn’t alone; I’d met up with a couple of acquaintances for the little adventure. One was a very pretty young lady and the other was a horny guy who was trying desperately to impress her.

We took off from the ground and ascended steadily into the air as the hot air blew into the interior of the balloon. As that happened, I noticed that all of the bragging that the other guy had been doing gradually began to diminish. By the time that the quaint houses and rural farms below had become small geometric shapes, the gibberish coming out of his mouth had been reduced to nervous mumblings, and a sheen of sweat shown on his forehead. Eventually he had to vacate his stomach of his lunch over the side of the cockpit because of his fear of being on the balloon that far up.

Fading Balloons

Similar to how a balloon fills up with air in order to “pump up” and take you on an adrenaline-filled trip, so does your penis flood with blood in order to get ready for action when aroused. But consider for a moment that if your balloon is worn out and tattered, the numerous little leaks in it won’t be able to stay swollen with hot air (blood), and eventually it would descend not soon after take-off.

As men age naturally their testosterone ebbs and they aren’t able to facilitate staying pumped full of blood as a consequence. As the penile tissues aren’t able to retain the blood, it quickly evacuates and you can end up with a saggy noodle and a very unhappy sex partner. And if you masturbate excessively, fatty deposits of collagen can collect and inhibit the flow of blood into the tiny interconnected chambers that normally swell up when it’s sexy-time. So how do you get back to getting a good stiffy?

The Big Pump Up

If you are masturbating too much, try reducing your frequency to 3 or 4 times per week in order to give your body a chance to repair itself.

Most men need additional help with their Mr. Softy problems. Fortunately, there is a great solution to this issue: Cock rings. (SEE: Erection Firming Cock Rings) These devices, when applied correctly, can enable a man to retain the blood that floods the penile chambers when aroused. One must be careful however, when considering this option, as a ring that is too tight can cause penile bruising and a loss of sensitivity. Done correctly, a cock ring can trap the engorged blood in your penile spongy tissues for longer lasting, harder erection, and they can also provide enhanced sensitivity and pleasure.

So buckle up and get ready to pump your balloon up for some exciting and exhilarating thrill rides!