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After those few motionless moments, he would immediately start that forceful thrusting, grabbing my hips and smacking his pelvis into me. I would hold onto whatever I could as the pounding caused me to slowly lose all sexual pleasure. It would have been different if he was hitting my g-spot but he wasn’t.
Trying His Best...
Our sexual experience is many different things; we are both experimental and playful in bed, but we know that sustainable sex means sustainable emotional connection. There were times when Ryan could not control himself when we were very connected and he would need to break away from the intimate moment.
Often he would need to stop just as I was about to orgasm. This, in turn, would cause the entire sexual experience to crumble. I began to research this issue and found information on Harmonic Qigong. I felt as if our experience could be enhanced by practicing this together.
Harmonic Qigong
It has other benefits as well. Without knowing it, my partner and I were practicing Harmonic Qigong when we would come together slowly and sensually but we were not educated on how to refrain from having an orgasm and make the experience last.
The link above gave my partner important advice on how to control his ejaculation so that I can reach climax before he does. Now when those moments come up during sex and he needs to control his ejaculation, he knows how to move through it. Since we are more connected than ever before, I have stronger orgasms and then enjoy the experience until he can do the same.
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