I'm Dating An Older Woman And I Want Our Sex To Be Mind Blowing

Learn how a younger male isn't getting the friction he desires with his older partner.

Case #: 711

Concern：

The trend for some males is to date an older woman. It’s thrilling to date a mature, sophisticated woman. The sex is alluring. The maturity level is nice. And hell, not having to worry about money or petty issues makes the relationship even better. And for the past six months, I’ve been dating an older woman. And wow, all the things people said are really true.

Sure, I have some minor complaints, but my, oh my, the sex is amazing. She can do things that no woman my age ever could accomplish. But here’s the problem: she feels a bit loose. For a 34 year old mother of one, she looks skinner and prettier than most girls my age, but I guess after having a child, her vaginal tissue took a beating. And when I penetrate her, I hardly feel any sort of stimulation. And the lack of stimulation continues to impede my ability to orgasm. So what can I do?

Discussion：

There's always been something alluring about dating an older woman. They know who they are and what they want, and they usually have their lives pretty well under control. For the most part it's a win-win situation all around.

Getting Your Cougar On
Luckily the fact that your partner has given birth before will not deter her from becoming tight again. There seems to be a pesky myth going around that once a woman gives birth vaginally, her vagina is ruined forever. This is not true. Of course, shortly after giving birth, a woman's vagina will be a bit larger, but it will eventually shrink back down. Not to it's original tightness, but pretty close to it.

What You Can Do

As a man, it's just as much your responsibility to keep things interesting in the bedroom as it is your partners. So try mixing it up a bit. After engaging in penetrative intercourse, try having an orgasm by having your partner stimulate you manually with her hand or mouth. These other options will certainly give you the stimulation you need to come to orgasm.

What She Can Do

The all mighty kegel is most definitely your friend. Doing a kegel exercise daily will help to build up those loose muscles down in the pelvic floor. It will also help to tighten up the skin surrounding the outside of the vagina, the urethra, and the anus.

I would recommend kegels to any woman who feels shes become a little undone, especially a woman who has recently given birth. The faster you start doing them after the birth, the tighter you'll become. And just in case you need a refresher course, try it out the next time you're taking a potty break. Try stopping and starting your flow of urine. If you can do that, you can kegel with the best of them.

How To Be Even Tighter

To give your vagina that extra snug feeling that your man craves, I would recommend herbs such as Suma, Tribulus, and Rhemannia (FORMULATED: VRD Formula) to increase elasticity and increase nerve intensity. When working together, these herbs can greatly increase the erection of vaginal tissues, and repair minor damage left behind from constant birth control use.