What Went Wrong with Your Dong? – Size Matters

Here is a gentleman that is experiencing problems maintaining hard erections, and he’s only 42 years old. What can he do to improve his erection quality and overall sex life?

Case #: 1700

Concern：

I am happily married to my husband for 3 years now and we have a great life, including a sex life but I just wish one thing could change. I wish that his penis was just a little bit bigger. When he is fully erect his penis is about 5.5 inches and he isn't all that thick. He is extremely insecure about the size of his penis and I tell him its okay but if there is a way for him to enlarge it then it would make both of us really happily and would make our sex life a lot better.

Discussion：

“It’s not about the size, it’s how you use it,” she said.

I replied: “Uh-huh…so a guy is going to be pleasing you with an elevator button sized penis?”

There were a few moments of silence and then she broke out in self-conscious laughter; she never answered.

Many modern Western women are hyper-politically correct, and so won’t say anything that they think is non-pc, even to the detriment of those concerned. This results in important matters not being discussed openly which can have unfortunate ramifications, especially when it comes to sex.

The Un-PC Truth

Cuddling, kissing, eye-contact, intimacy, little teddy bears, dolphins, and rainbows - these are all cute and everything, but when it comes down to it let’s face the facts; great sex is a very important component of any successful relationship. If a man can knock it out of the park and cause a woman’s legs to quiver and toes to curl (along with drenching whatever surface is underneath her), he’s taking care of business in the bedroom.

Unfortunately, all men aren’t created equally with regard to penis size so naturally many embark on a quest to seek out ways of gaining size. Even men who may have been blessed downstairs can see a reduction in size as they get older because of lowered testosterone and HGH levels. Or if they masturbate too much and cause fatty deposits to build up and block off block blood flow into tiny interconnected blood chambers within the penis.

So how do you make some real changes?

A Nuanced Technique

The jelqing technique has been around for ages, which means it has had plenty of time to be used properly as well as improperly, the latter a more common occurrence.

The proper method is as follows: Tell him to connect the tip of his index finger with his thumb like he’s giving the “Okay” signal. Now he should lube up his member and repeat the same hand formation while grasping the base of his penis. If it is too thick at that location, he doesn’t have to touch his finger/thumb together; the main thing here is that he wants some pressure just not an excessive amount.

Next he’ll want to begin the motion; sliding his hand formation forward and outward toward the glans (mushroom head) of his member in slow, controlled motions. The lube reduces friction and also the chance of injuring himself. If his penis starts to become dry, reapply more lube. Make sure that he doesn’t get all the way hard, just firm. This enables the blood to travel more fluidly throughout his penis, which eventually stimulates grown.

He can engage in this technique for up to ten minutes, but beyond that his chances of bruising and injuring his penis increase, so tell him to take it easy. Carefully following this method can reap big (pun intended) rewards, and your husband can feel secure about his dong again. Heck he may even take to walking throughout the house with his wiener swinging around so be careful what you wish for!