Cannot Have Orgasm Because Of My Tilted Backward Uterus

Learn about a young woman who believes she's never truly experienced an authentic orgasm, and why she feels her tilted uterus is the reason why her pleasure meter has never peeked.

Case #: 485

Concern：

I am 27, and I’ve been married 9 years this August. I have had problems with sex for quite a while because my uterus is tilted backward. Also, I know this is going to sound stupid and unbelievable, but I don't think I have ever had an orgasm. I dreamed something last night. And either I reached down there or dreamed I did and my vagina hole was pulsating. That is an orgasm right? If so, I have never had one during sex. Please, please help me!

Discussion：

The Elusive Big “O”

The first order of business: give yourself an orgasm to start. You should be finely in tune with your own body. Know what you like and then you'll be able to teach your partner. Though a tilted uterus does throw a tiny wrench in the pleasure-plan, it doesn't rule it out completely.

Exterior vs. Interior

For some unthinkable reason, it has become very common for women to believe that if they are not reaching orgasm from penetration alone there is something wrong with them. The truth is, instead of your partner searching for the practically mythical G-spot, they should first focus on the very visible clitoris.

The fact is 80 percent of women will not have an orgasm from penetration alone. The clitoris needs to be stimulated, tilted uterus or not. I personally have never had an orgasm that didn't include some sort of clitoral stimulation. I can say this without shame because I know how my body works, and luckily, so does my partner.

Tortured Tipping

The tipped uterus aspect could possibly be detouring orgasm in this case. Having a tilted uterus can sometimes create a painful experience for woman. Essentially, a tipped uterus enables the penis to sharply hit the cervix during intercourse, which can be painful. Sex is supposed to be a pleasurable experience between two consenting adults, and when the pleasure is replaced by sharp pain, no amount of clitoral stimulation can counter act the discomfort.

Rub and Relax

After you've explored your own body and know what sets you off, it's time to test it out in the field. Have your partner help you reach orgasm first by stimulating the clitoris either digitally or orally. Once you've reach orgasm you'll feel your body relax and intercourse will hopefully not feel as uncomfortable as before.

If you continually experience orgasm issues, you may need to try an all-natural supplement to help the body restore itself to its right hormonal levels. Often times, orgasm problems can occur thanks to hormonal imbalances in the body. And a tipped uterus can lead to insensitivity issues because of the lack of proper hormones.