When It Comes To Anal, You Can Never Be Too Clean!

Do you worry about creating an awkward mess every time you engage in anal sex?
Case #: 1886
Concern：
So, my girlfriend wants to try anal. Normally I would be way into it, but the last time I tried to have anal sex with my ex, things went south really quick. Let's just say, she wasn't the cleanest girl out there. I know my new girlfriend is up to par on her hygiene practices, but what about the inside?
Discussion：
Nobody wants to go through that awkward, post-anal clean up. It's been known to break up many a relationship. I'm sure I would find it incredibly hard to look my boyfriend in the eye ever again, if I had accidentally defecated on him during intercourse. It's just not a good look.
Clean Out The Back Porch
Many people still consider anal to be a taboo sex act, mainly because of two main reasons; the idea that it will be incredibly painful, and the possibility that it will be very messy. In all actuality, anal sex is really only as painful as you make it out to be. As long as you stay properly lubricated throughout the sexual session, and you remain calm and relaxed, you shouldn't have a problem.
As someone who has engaged in anal intercourse multiple times, I suppose I would describe the sensation as simply sex...Just in a different place. The first time I did it, I was able to keep myself pretty relaxed, and it ended up turning out to be a pretty enjoyable experience. I would imagine a lot of women freak themselves out, thinking it's going to be this horribly uncomfortable and painful thing. The truth is, as long as you remain calm, and just let the pleasure wash over you, you'll be fine.
irst Time Butterflies
For any woman who is about to have anal sex for the first time, I would recommend taking a warm bath or a hot shower with your partner beforehand. Not only will this help to get you in the mood, it will also aid in relaxing those tight anal muscles and help to cleanse the outside of the anus of harmful bacteria.
You may also try having your partner give you a sensual massage to loosen your tense muscles. It is important that you remain as calm and relaxed as possible throughout the process. And also, be sure to have a little 'heads-up' conversation before you dive in to the backdoor. Anal sex should never be sprung on your partner out of the blue.
Outside And Inside
Taking a bath, and normal hygiene practices may keep you as clean as can be on the outside, but when it comes to the inside of the anus, you will have to get a little more intrusive than your run of the mill shower. Enemas are actually a great, inexpensive anal cleansing solution that you can do in the comfort of your own home. (SEE: Booty Cleaning Enemas) We use vaginal douches to keep that area clean, so it only makes sense to cleanse the anus the same way, if we choose to have sex with it.
I would also suggest that you try to void your bowels completely before using an enema, and trying again about an hour before you engage in anal sex. And wear a condom! Having your girlfriend use an enema beforehand will take away most of the risk of having a 'crappy' experience, but it does not ensure protection from any sexually transmitted diseases.

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