Pop Goes Your Penis – The Shame & Embarrassment of Cuming Too Soon

This gentleman is marries with wife…well with disappointed wife. Lately, he’s been popping off to fast and if he even manages to get it into her vagina, it’s soft as a marshmallow. What’s the real deal here?

Case #: 1427

Concern：

I don't last very long when having sex and I also don't get that many hard erections as before. There are some mornings when I do have an erection. I am a married man but regular sex is not part of my life. I masturbate on average 1 to 3 times a week and it has happened for a very long time. I want to be able to last longer and make love to my wife like before.

Discussion：

Everything is set for tonight. When she gets home you’ll have a romantic dinner and then you two will have a couple of glasses of wine and listen to some romantic music like you used to.

Not Again!

You’ve been stressed out lately, and as a result you’ve been whacking the wizard in an attempt to allay those feelings of severe anxiety, lest they lead to something more serious such as depression. It has worked to some extent you tell yourself; you have felt more relaxed after a little self-sexy time and that feeling of relief after a good climax is quite exquisite. Too bad your wife isn’t there to have sex with you instead like she used too, but you don’t blame her; you’ve been cuming too fast recently and that has been not only embarrassing for you, but disappointing for her. Well, tonight will be different since you haven’t masturbated in a few days and have saved up your sperm and sex drive up for her...

You and your wife retire to the bedroom and things get pretty hot and heavy. You’re just about to slip Mr. Happy in when boom, you shoot off all over the sheets; yet another disappointment for your wife and another instance where you’ve let yourself down. That night you toss and turn, further stressing out about your issues and their ramifications to your relationship.

While it’s perfectly natural to masturbate, when you start to rely on it as your sole stress releaser or way to have fun, you can find yourself slipping into the chronic masturbation zone, and that’s where the symptoms start to pop up (no pun intended). What happens when you over masturbate is that you produce too many stress hormones and neurochemicals which flood your body, which causes your adrenal glands to spaz-out and work on overdrive. This in turn throws off your hypothalamic-pituitary-adrenal (HPA) axis, part of the neuroendocrine system which monitors and controls your stress levels, mood, and even your immune system. This causes an imbalance in your oxycotin production which affects your ejaculation nerves and ducts, resulting in premature ejaculation.

The Light Ahead

In order to start to get back on the road to recovery, don’t force it. That is to say, since you are having issues in the bedroom don’t try and make things worse by trying over and over to get things going sexually; this will just make the problem worse. Also, lay off playing with yourself for a while. At least until your symptoms are taken care of.

Taking an herbal healing mixture can be just what is needed to get you to that next level of Wholistic healing. (TRY: Herbal Formula for Ejaculatory Control & Nerve Repair) These powerful remedies can strengthen your ejaculatory nerves and muscles; similar to reinforcing a leaky dam, allowing you to reclaim control over when you want to shoot your seed. They can also help to re-balance your DHT, dopamine, GABA, and serotonin levels, as well as erode any plaque or scar tissue build-up (due to excessive masturbation) within your penile blood vessels and interconnected chambers; resulting in a return to you being able to get a stiff erection once again. Take your time, don’t panic, just follow the instructions with the remedy and return to that sexual tiger that you once were.