Helping a Husband Fight Premature Ejaculation

A woman is concerned that her husband has been ejaculating prematurely during sex.

Case #: 431

Concern：

My husband prematurely ejaculates every time we have sex. He says it happens because of the warmth of my vagina, which I tell him is not something I can control. This problem is interfering with our sex life and prevents me from reaching orgasm before he ejaculates. Help me find a cure for his P.E. problem and save our sex life.

Discussion：

Premature ejaculation is a problem for many men and can be stressful for both partners. There are numerous things that can cause premature ejaculation, warmth of the vagina might be just an excuse. Once you identify the cause of the problem, you can find a solution that works for your husband.

Stress and Performance Anxiety

If your husband is stressed he may be unable to focus on controlling his ejaculation. Stress can cause numerous sexual problems including premature ejaculation and even impotence. Stress about the act of sex or performance anxiety is another reason your husband could be experiencing his P.E. problems.

If he is worried about pleasing you or about ejaculating prematurely, he may actually be setting his penis up for failure. Try getting him to relax before sex and initiate some foreplay to help get him in the mood and forget about his stress. If the anxiety level is more than he can handled, try Calm pills for his P.E. problem.

Health Problems

Premature ejaculation can be the sign of other health problems such as blood pressure imbalances. If there is too much or not enough blood flowing to your husband’s penis, he may have a hard time maintaining an erection. P.E. can also be caused from a weakened ejaculation valve or a hormone imbalance. Another common cause of P.E. is an enlarged prostate. The prostate can become enlarged for a number of reasons, including sexual exhaustion brought on by excessive masturbation. Your husband’s body needs to be a fine tuned machine in order for everything to work together and make him a sexual pro.

Poor Diet and Medications

A healthy diet means a healthy body and a healthy body can perform better in the bedroom. A good diet that is full of protein, vegetables, fruits and whole grains will give the body the nutrients it needs to restore itself after sex and masturbation and recover quicker after ejaculating. If your husband is taking medications, they could also be causing his P.E. problems. If you or your husband feel that his medication may be to blame, he should talk to his doctors and consider switching medications if possible.

Getting Help for Your Husband

Identifying the cause of the problem is the first step towards recovery. There are herbal supplements available that can help combat the problems. The supplements can help restore hormone levels, help the body recover from sexual exhaustion and even help your husband maintain harder erections for long periods of time.

You may have to rely on trial and error to get to the root cause of his P.E. problems, but once you find the right supplements and treatment, your husband will be able to satisfy your needs before his own.