How I Wish Upon An Orgasm

Learn about some of the reasons behind not being able to orgasm. Is it The vibrator, or Too much sex?

Case #: 1492

Concern：

I have never experienced an orgasm while having sex. I am forty-one years old and have masturbated since the age of fourteen with both a water jet and a vibrator, when I was old enough to buy one. I continue to still do this on an average of five times a week, whether it be masturbating, shower jet, vibrator, or sex. Whenever I use either too much I end up with a more difficult time reaching an orgasm. I have read that over masturbation can cause problems with how long it takes to reach an orgasm but I never imagined it happening to me. How can I get my body back on track and be able to orgasm a lot more frequently? I want to repair whatever damage I have done to my vagina.

Discussion：

The female orgasm can be a pretty elusive creature. I should know, it took me years to figure out that I could actually orgasm during sex. It is true that when women practice excessive masturbation, it will give you fewer chances to actually orgasm. A lot of vibrator use can damage the sensitive nerve endings within the clitoris. It can also over stimulate the neuro- endocrine systems.

Art Of The Orgasm

If the system is stimulated too much it will trigger a sever elevation of stress hormones like dopamine or epinephrine. This will have adverse affects on the reproductive organs. And eventually, this type of hormonal imbalance could lead to pituitary-ovarian functional disorders, as well as sexual exhaustion symptoms.

If your pituitary or ovarian functions are disrupted in any way, your body will react as if a toxic organ has infiltrated the body. With this type of situation, your arteries will become inflamed, which will constrict the blood flow to your brain. Narrowed arteries require higher blood pressure in order to pump a sufficient amount of oxygen to the brain. This condition may result in headaches, migraines, blurred version, sleeping disorders, ear ringing, liver and kidney inflammation, and disorders concerning the uterus, bladder, and urethra.

How To Fix It

I would definitely recommend utilizing a natural remedy that includes ingredients such as Mexican Wild Yam, Dong Quia, Mucuna Pruriens, and Maca. These herbs will help to stop any inflammation that has formed around the clitoris, repair damaged nerve endings, and increase blood circulation to the vaginal area. (TRY: Herbal Formula for Clitoral Sensitivity & Passion Increase) They will also oversee the proper production of DHEA and HGH, as well as provide nutrients for your neurotransmitters.

I would suggest you stay away from any high powered devises for at least six months so that your vaginal and the clitoral tissues actually have time to heal themselves. At this point, any use of a vibrator, or water jet will only agitate the condition further.

Getting Up And On

I've found that the best way to achieve orgasm while engaged in sex is to get on top of your partner in frontward facing cowgirl, and while you ride your partner, grind your clitoris on his pelvic bone. This will give you the proper amount of friction needed to reach climax, as long as you are the one in charge and setting the pace. As with most things, the best part is getting there, so be sure you are relaxed and in the moment.