I Can't Help Feeling Embarrassed And Guilty Every Time We Try To Make Love

A man suffering from erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation discovers how excessive masturbation lead to his problems.

Case #: 471

Concern：

Until I discovered this website, I thought I was doomed to suffer from my sexual problems. For some time now, I have experienced weak and unsustainable erections along with premature ejaculation. I'm fairly sure that I did this to myself because I used to be more than capable of lasting a long time in bed. After reading some articles on your site, I'm fairly sure that I know what the cause of my problem is, but I don't understand why it is happening to me. While it's true that I used to masturbate multiple times a day, I haven't been doing it that much in the past few months. My girlfriend has been very supportive, but I can't help feeling embarrassed and guilty every time we try to make love. Please help me to figure out how to heal myself. This is very upsetting and I will do everything in my power to fix this problem. Is there anything you can do to help?

Discussion：

First of all, let me congratulate you on having the willpower to do whatever it takes to become healthy again. It takes a strong individual to admit there's a problem and then do something about it. I'm happy to report that you may very well already be on the road to recovery, as you mentioned that you have not been masturbating as much in the past few months, which is definitely a step in the right direction. While Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation are two very different issues, they do have a few things in common that might help us to diagnose your problem.

What Happened?

There are quite a few possible reasons for your condition, but since you mentioned excessive masturbation, let's begin there. When men masturbate, they release certain chemicals, which result in a temporary hormonal imbalance. Over masturbation can lead to releasing too much of an inflammatory chemical known as prostaglandin E-2, which is intended to relax the muscles but in excess can cause several problems.

Some of the issues related to this condition are impotence, weak erection and even premature ejaculation. This condition can also affect the levels of testosterone in your system, which is definitely a significant factor in being able to enjoy sexual activities. One of the most important steps to take in this case is to stop masturbating and allow your body to heal itself and regain hormonal balance. As such, it's very likely that you've already taken proactive steps to solve your issues without even knowing it.

Why Can't I Keep it Up?

Well, it is very likely that you are also suffering from a condition known as Venous Leakage. This issue is brought about when the veins of the penis are unable to keep blood flowing, resulting in soft erections or difficulty keeping an erection. There are many possible causes for venous leakage, and excessive masturbation is one of them. Remember how I mentioned that prostaglandin E-2 was intended to relax the muscles? Well, imagine what a buildup of this hormone would do to the muscles of your penis. A study found that 40 percent of young adults who were suffering from conditions similar to yours were found to have venous leakage problems along with a hormonal imbalance. While this could be caused by a number of different factors, in your case it seems more than likely that the culprit is indeed over masturbation.

Getting Back in Action

While I would highly suggest avoiding any sexual stress or anxiety for a while, there are ways that you can help the healing process along. You need to let your hormones regain balance and counteract any problems you might be having with venous leaks. Thankfully, there are herbal supplements that are designed to help with just those concerns.

The herbs in this solution help to increase blood flow, reduce the instance of prostaglandin-E2 in your system, increase testosterone levels and stop venous leaks. You've already taken some rather difficult steps on the road to recovery, but with a little help you should be back to normal in no time. We wish you the best of luck on your recovery!