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Older and Wiser

Boyfriend is concerned about his forty-year-old girlfriend’s lack of orgasm. He wonders why she was able to when she was young and isn’t now. They both wonder if it has something to do with her having a lack of sensation in her clitoris and vagina. Is there anything she can take to regain sensation?
Case #: 1115
Concern:

No matter how hard I try I cannot get my 40-year-old girlfriend to orgasm. She did it twice when she was young but cannot now. I am doing all the right things and she has drawn the conclusion that it might have something to do with her not being sensitive enough down there. Is there something that she can take to help her experience orgasms again?
Discussion:

I think there are two problems here: the first being that your girlfriend has only had two orgasms in her entire life, and the second being that she has now hit a stage in which her body is beginning to turn away from its sexuality. The problem with her not having had more orgasms in her youth is that she now has little-to-no idea how to make herself orgasm. And that’s harsh, because it’s going to be a lot harder for her to achieve orgasm at this stage in her life than it was in her earlier years. The reason for this has to do with her hormones.
Happy and Healthy

At this stage, I’m recommending you begin an herbal supplement designed to revitalize the clitoris. Luckily for both of you, it doesn’t just increase sexual enjoyment stemming from the clitoris alone, but also helps to maintain a happy, healthy vagina, as well as a healthy sexual desire.
One-on-One

So, your girlfriend has had two orgasms. Has she done much solo experimentation? Studies show that women who are familiar and comfortable with their bodies have much higher rates of orgasm. The reason is because an orgasm for a woman can be a difficult thing to achieve.
So many things can get in the way! Even when you’re on the right track, it might feel like “too much” or something might knock you out of your groove. Men have been frustrated for eons with the female sexual process, simply because it’s so very different from the male: insert, jostle, and repeat routine.
Ain’t What She Used to Be

Not only that, but your girlfriend’s level of sex hormones are beginning to decrease. This leads to a host of other problems, not least lack of desire, lack of enjoyment, and lack of proper lubrication. I think the most important thing for you two right now is for your girlfriend to begin an herbal course designed to increase circulation to the genital region, as well as to stabilize the levels of sex hormones in her body.
Self-Discovery

Accomplishing these things will have such a dramatic effect on her body that she might have no further problems trying to find her orgasm. (SEE: Clitoral Revitalization for Stronger Orgasms) However, in my opinion, it is still imperative that she becomes familiar with what feels best to her. Encourage her in self-exploration, search out what turns her on, and immerse yourself in finding the best ways to please her.
These techniques will surely have your girlfriend well on her way to her next orgasm in no time. Good luck!

What to do

Natural Clitoral Revitalization – Revive the Sensitivity & Passion

Most modern career-oriented adults sadly discover that as life gets busier, they (and many other couples) indulge in unsatisfying goal-oriented sex. A ‘quickie’ gets the job done. But all this ‘too much’ and ‘too fast’ can numb a woman’s most...

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