Gentlemen Please, Ladies First - More Info. On Lasting Longer To Pleasure Your Partner

I am having trouble giving my girlfriend an orgasm. I am trying to give her one through a combination of hand, mouth and penis pleasures… I am not able to keep from ejaculating before she is close.

Case #: 26040

Concern：

My girlfriend cannot orgasm, and I vehemently try to make her experience one. I try everything—hand stimulation, tongue-and-mouth action and penis pleasure—all to no avail. When we do engage in sex, I am unable to control my ejaculation. My lack of control may be the biggest cause for her lack of euphoria. What can I do to last longer?

Discussion：

All is fair in love and war--but making love is not always fair. Lovemaking isn’t a competition--one side does not need to achieve some tangible goal. Instead, lovemaking provides the experience of a fun and pleasurable time where two individuals can expand their ecstatic euphoria and animalistic desires.

Getting Her to O…O…Orgasm

Lovemaking requires considerable effort from both you and your partner. The more effort you dedicate to the practice, the more enjoyable the act becomes. Start by setting the mood. The more comfortable she is, the better her chances to orgasm. Go above and beyond what you normally do to prepare for sex. Get rose petals and candles. Buy a bottle of champagne. Play her favorite songs. Or cook her a romantic dinner.

Romantic gestures excite women—both sexually and emotionally. For women, the emotional aspect creates comfort, elation and most importantly—pleasure. The pleasure you create from small acts of love and kindness will put her in a better position to orgasm.

Preventing Your Orgasm

Your brain receives high levels of adrenaline and endorphins during sex, along with dopamine and serotonin. Meanwhile, your nervous system sends stimulation to the penis. For example, serotonin will create the pleasure, and dopamine will provide the happiness associated with sex. Your penis too will release precum to lubricate and stimulate the penile gland. When the gland experiences heightened sensitivity, you will orgasm.

To prevent an orgasm, you will have to minimize the release of precum and mentally fortify your mind to stop an early explosion. If you’re nervous, you will perform poorly. If you’re scared, you too will have a mediocre performance. If your ejaculatory valve releases too much precum too soon, you will orgasm.

Solutions

Calm your body and ease your woes using a breathing technique. The Taoist Technique, like many deep breathing and meditative methods, eliminates worry and fear. The technique too will strengthen your parasympathetic nerves, which control the opening and closing of the ejaculatory valve. You can also strengthen the valve with the herbal nourish pills to minimize the release of precum to stop an orgasm.