Tough Decision: Boredom and Unhealthy Lifestyle vs. a Thrilling and Connected Life

Sex is a fantastic. We make love with passion, but sometimes disregard wisdom that must come with an active sexual life. Let’s see what happens when an overactive habit combined with an unhealthy sex position can have severe repercussions.

Case #: 499

Concern：

I’m a normal teenager, fascinated about sex to the point where I think I’m addicted. It started looking at magazines. Then, I progressed to masturbating to these pictures. Eventually, I started dry humping my bed and each time it took longer to ejaculate. Before I reach an orgasm, I pointed my penis toward the floor, stopping my ejaculation until I could make it to the toilet for a no mess finish.

This routine continued. I started feeling pain, peeing and cumming blood. My wife is furious with me because I’ve stopped having sex with her. Everything sexy about life is gone, replaced with so much pain. What can I do to get my sex life back?

Discussion：

Let me guess, you’re experiencing loneliness and boredom every day. You feel distant and disconnected from your wife.

I’d encourage you to look at where these feelings of loneliness and boredom come from. Most of all talk about these feelings with our partners, bridging the gap that’s been there ever since the pattern of behavior formed. You can’t fully recover without your partner.

When I had my first beer, I wanted more. Since I’m a heavy coffee drinker, I thought I’d really enjoy a dark ale beer. After my first few beers, I remember getting a six-pack every trip to the grocery store. And soon enough, I always had my pale dark beers in my fridge. It’s the little steps, like my beer runs, that change us. Your habit started off small. You would masturbate for a bit, ejaculate and repeat. As you aged, the habit continued. Now, you’re habits have ruined your health.

Patching a Flat Tire

The first course of action is to refrain from all sexual activity for an extensive period of time. This is a small step sacrifice toward your path to recovery. Always the hardest, but if you understand the pain being caused to your penis and testicles, you’ll have a new found appreciation for your recovery and determination that will follow that.

Masturbation is good in moderation, but when it’s combined with a dangerous position, you can hurt yourself. There are actually many dangerous positions that can cause penis fractures, a severe bruising of penis tissue that can lead to damaging the urethra and blood vessels.

When you point your penis to the floor, you might be holding your ejaculation, but the blood is rushing so fast and pumping so hard that the pressurized blood vessels pop. You’ve noticed this when you pee and cum blood. You are also tearing the penis at the tunica albuginea, a cover around the cavernosum tissue. Without the cover, you can’t get an erection.

After your recovery it would also be wise to avoid any sexual enhancement products, like penis pumps, cock rings, as these double the pressure. Imagine popping your bike tire with a rusty nail, patching it up and then blowing up the tire twice its capacity. You’re doing the same to your penis. Your erections won’t be maintained for long and more blood vessels could pop, especially if you keep dry humping the bed or using any other dangerous positions.

Take a Vacation

What can really help you is taking a vacation from all the sexual activity. More sexual activity will cause more damage to your reproductive system and have repercussions throughout your body. This rejuvenation remedy uses natural herbs to restore the quality of your erection, repair damaged blood vessels and awaken deadened penile sensory tissue. Don’t just patch up the problem; go for the long lasting solution of an herbal remedy for a connected and satisfying sex life. Your wife will be sure to thank you.