Don't Fear - Enjoying Sex Again Is Here

A male newlywed is experiencing difficulty in getting aroused for sexual activity with his wife. When trying to engage in intercourse with his new wife, he cannot produce an erection.

Case #: 398

Concern：

I am feeling problems during sex. When I want to insert my penis into the vagina of my wife, my penis goes down and does not response, so I cannot have sex properly with my wife. I have been married 8 months and until now I cannot insert my penis into her vagina. Please tell me how I can increase my sexual ability. Is it any problem?

Discussion：

Most men will, at some point in their lives, experience serious bouts of anxiety. For many, this anxiety can result in being fearful of underperforming during sexual activities, and may also alienate those around them that they care about the most.

Anxiety may also reduce a man’s abilities to both perform and concentrate in the bedroom, and even cause impotence. Needless to say, these factors play importance roles in having successful sexual encounters.

Why can’t I get into it?
There are many causes that lead to suffering from performance anxiety for men. Events such as marriages can already be stressful, especially new ones as in the case of the newlywed above. Other specific factors, such as work-related stress, family quarrels, sexual inexperience, and societal pressures to “be a real man” and perform with vigor, have been reported as major contributors as well.

Some men who have suffered from performance anxiety are able to conquer the stress that they initially experienced. For others, these negative feelings can spiral out of control, further compounding the original feelings of nervousness. Alcohol and prescription drugs are sometimes sought out as quick-fix remedies, but this usually results in the matter becoming worse.

All of these negative influences can culminate in high levels of stress and anxiety, which in turn stimulate the pituitary gland to produce an overabundance of adrenaline.

This sudden flood of adrenaline sharply reduces the production of the main driver of sexual prowess in men; the hormone testosterone. The lower the levels of testosterone; the higher the chance that a man will not be able to engage in sexual intercourse.

Signs of Performance Anxiety:

• Anxiety, depression, or general moodiness (crabbiness)
• Obsessive worrying about not “measuring up” in future sexual encounters
• Inability to manifest an erection

Don't Fear; Enjoying Sex Again Is Here
Performance anxiety is very common, and fortunately, it is also quite treatable. Some simple changes that can be made are psychological, such as treating sex as a pleasurable experience with the goal of stimulating both partners, rather than viewing it as a “task” that needs to be completed/achieved.

Simply “making love” as opposed to more of the “wham-bam” approach, can lead to a more enjoyable and far less stressful experience.

Men should also be looking after themselves. More specifically, this means starting or maintaining a healthy lifestyle including having a well-balanced diet, engaging in a regular exercise routine, and avoiding some of the situations that cause stress in the first place.

By far, however, the most direct and effective method of helping your body ward off the effects of performance anxiety, and to improve erection quality, is through specialized herbal formulas.

Long before the first Western pharmaceutical industry was in existence, ancient Chinese botanical and holistic treatments were used for centuries to enhance sexual performance and treat disorders. These effective herbal and homeopathic remedies are safe and gentle to use, without the adverse side–effects of more traditional modern medications. These natural cures provide an aphrodisiac effect and help with the loss of sexual desires.

“What can these do for me” you ask? Read on and find out.

What These Herbal Remedies Do:

• Strengthens liver efficiency, thereby helping to detoxify and further metabolize stress hormones
• Promotes sexual vitality
• Increased natural testosterone production and overall hormonal balance
• Provides a sense of relaxation and a more peaceful temperament throughout the day

These powerful herbal mixtures contain natural photo-compounds, such as Jujube Ziziphus (Ziziphus Jujubae), Chrysanthemum, and Dong Quai, which help detoxify the body, calm the mind, and replenish vital nutrients needed for reducing over-stressed nerves.

What are you waiting for? A new life of calm and sexual prowess awaits!