Sharing Your Deepest Fantasies

Some things are better left unsaid does not apply to sex. You need to voice your dislikes and your likes. You need to communicate how you enjoy things being performed, and you need to voice what can be done to further your satisfaction. And no matter how kinky or strange your desire, you should voice your opinion.
 
Whether it’s a fantasy of having sex in the wilderness or having sex while at a party, you need to share your desires. Sometimes, the hardest part is building up the courage to communicate these sexual needs. Sure, you don’t want to suggest something and she feel uncomfortable with the idea. But still, it’s better to say something than nothing at all.
 

Be Brave

According to Lou Paget, author of “365 Days of Sensational Sex,” no fantasy is that original. If you’ve thought about having sex at the beach while surrounded by floatie devices, someone has likely thought about the same thing. No matter how outrageous, strange or different a fantasy may seem, someone has tried it, thought of it and enjoyed it. According to Paget, for individuals to voice their opinions they must
 
1. Hold faith and trust in their partners
2. Trust that they can ask their partners to help them fulfill a fantasy.
 
Sure, fulfilling your fantasy of being dressed in baby’s clothes and wiped after using the bathroom may seem pleasing, but you’ll never know how satisfying the dream can be unless you ask your partner. Trust your partner, and feel free to ask him or her what you want performed.