English 中文 Español
Male Infertility
Testicular Pain & Injury
Penis Pain & Injury
Low Sex Drive
Over Masturbation
Weak Erection
Prostate Enlargement
Premature Ejaculation
Country or Region
State or Province

Save Selections

We No Horny! What to Do When Your Sex Life is Dead at 25

They’re 25-years-old, but only have sex once every 3 weeks. What’s the problem here? How can they begin having more sex in their lives?
Case #:1810

Is it normal for a 25-year-old couple to have a low sex drive? We only have sex once every 3 weeks or so, and this isn't anything new, we were always like this. There are those days when we'll be mad at each other, or those days when we'll be extremely loving, but that doesn't seem to change anything. Do you happen to have any ideas on how we can increase our sex drive and be able to engage in more sex, more often?

I think that as long as you are both satisfied with the current situation, there’s no reason to fret about having sex every three weeks. Each person ranks differently on the sexual desire spectrum; some have an almost frenetic desire for sex, while others are fulfilled by the occasional excellent lovemaking session. It’s lucky that the two of you are so well matched; problems arise when one partner wants either more or less sex than the other.
That Loving Hormone

However, low sex drive in both sexes is almost always related to an absence of male sex hormones—androgens. In females, androgens promote sex drive and libido. They do the same in males, only to a much larger extent. Without enough androgens, you just don’t desire sex very much.
What You Need

If you want to have a larger desire for sex, you must either increase your androgens, or trick your body into a sexually responsive mood by circumventing this need. For females needing more androgens, I generally recommend a low-dose testosterone cream. The cream includes just enough testosterone to boost your libido without giving you a full-blown mustache, or adult acne.
Males can use a testosterone patch—similar to a nicotine patch—that releases a small amount of testosterone into the body over time. There are also androgen gels that can be used to slowly build testosterone levels.
Touch Me, Baby

However, if you don’t feel comfortable taking hormonal supplements, you can trick your body into arousal without feeling the initial desire for sex. You can do this through massage. Massage releases chemical signalers such as dopamine and serotonin, the precursors to sex. If you begin with a sensual massage, you’ll soon be ready for more action. (TRY: Sex Drive Boosting Massage)
I give this same advice to mothers with newborns who aren’t feeling the love, so to speak. By triggering sex specific hormones through massage, your body is kicked into intercourse mode, and you’ll want to have sex. Regular massage will help to normalize your hormone levels, and you’ll soon no longer need to rely on it. However, it’s always a pleasant addition to the bedroom.

What to do

Erotic Massage - Boosting Your Sex Drive

From kissing and cuddling to staring and smiling, foreplay remains as varied in its practice as it does across age groups, cultures

[More Details +]

Views: 177

Ideas: Women's, Low Sex Drive

Blog ID: 61422

Images & contents may be subject to copyright    •   Report this image

More Like This

11/19/2023 3:06:00 PM
You'll Know When You Know: Reaching An Orgasm
Justin Wren
11/19/2023 3:17:00 PM
Is It Menopause Or Depression
Justin Wren
11/19/2023 3:21:00 PM
Orgasm Ruined by SSRIs Prescribed for Insomnia 
Jean Dohm-
11/19/2023 3:12:00 PM
Getting Off the Pill Is Giving Her Problems With Getting Off: A Hormone Hassle She s been on birt
Kate Gorrell~
11/19/2023 3:08:00 PM
Sex Is Painful For My Wife
Sasha Johnson-
11/19/2023 3:13:00 PM
He Can Keep Going and Going, But I Can t Go at All!
Lucinda Watrous
11/19/2023 3:19:00 PM
Enjoying Anal Sex: A Guide for the Uninitiated
Kate Gorrell.
11/19/2023 3:11:00 PM
Female Over-Masturbation, Sexual Addiction and Chronic Exhaustion
Cameron Turner
11/19/2023 3:13:00 PM
When Life Just Isn t Fair: She and Her Partner Desperately Want a Baby but Nothing has Worked Yet
Jean Dohm*
11/19/2023 3:03:00 PM
Hormone-Based Birth Control Causes Her Vaginal Dryness and Intercourse Pain
Herballove Editorial..
11/19/2023 3:12:00 PM
Side Effects of Birth Control Can Mean Estrogen Dominance and Excessive Vaginal Discharge
Jean Dohm..
11/19/2023 3:14:00 PM
Hidden Dangers in Pleasure: Too Much Masturbation can Damage Nerves and Cause Intercourse Pain
Jean Dohm..
11/19/2023 3:17:00 PM
Clitoris Insensitivity Means No More Sexual Pleasure for Her
Jean Dohm..
11/19/2023 3:03:00 PM
My Girlfriend's Vagina Tastes Like Salt Baths And Produces A Nasty...
Shalai Short
11/19/2023 3:10:00 PM
Hands On Training
Herballove Editorial+
11/19/2023 3:29:00 PM
A Birth Control Shot is the Culprit of Her Brownish Vaginal Discharge
Herballove Editorial**
11/19/2023 3:15:00 PM
Excessive Masturbation Triggers Sexual Exhaustion Symptoms
Herballove Editorial-
11/19/2023 3:23:00 PM
IUD Gave Me A Decrease In Sex Drive, Sporadic Mood Swings, And Some Weight Gain
Sasha Johnson+
11/19/2023 3:17:00 PM
The Ties that Bind - Post Tubal Ligation Syndrome
Kate Gorrell--
11/19/2023 3:23:00 PM
Loose Lips and Sinking Libido
Kate Gorrell--