Have I Damaged My Vagina

Learn how a woman has lost her orgasm after some regular use of a vibrator.

Case #: 987

Concern：

Before I read about the extreme damages that can happen from using a vibrator, my husband and I would often have to use a vibrator on my clitoris so I could achieve orgasm. Now that we are more knowledgeable about some of the damage, I am glad we have stopped using the vibrator, but we are still having one problem...I cannot orgasm. Even after stopping the vibrator use.

Discussion：

Over the years of my personal sexual exploration, I've learned many women find it difficult to have a genuine orgasm with their sexual partners. Many times this lack of reaction has nothing to do with whether we find our partners completely attractive or not. The real key when it comes to the art of female orgasm is knowing your own body better than anyone else.

Put Yourself First

For years I couldn't reach climax while engaged in sexual intercourse with my significant other, but during masturbation I was able to orgasm each and every time without fail. It took years, but once I finally figured out how to ensure orgasm for myself during sex it took off like a rocket.

I realized that what I liked during my personal masturbation time, needed to be implemented in my sex life as well. Once we realize, as women, that sex is actually supposed to be a completely fulfilling experience for all parties involved, it becomes much easier to integrate and share things we enjoy, and things that will get us off for sure.

Zero Vibes

You and your husband were right to cease use of the good vibrations. If a female is already having trouble climaxing on her without the help of toys, the use of vibrators might actually cause additional damage to the vagina, clitoris, or cervix. Unfortunately, there is a good chance that you may have inadvertently caused some nerve damage to the clitoral area with the vibrations. However, if you are able to heighten the circulation of blood in the clitoris, your body will be able to heal itself.

How To Fix It

The best way to go about boosting your clitoral blood circulation is by utilizing natural solutions. (SEE: Natural Clitoral Revitalization Remedy) Herbs such as Mexican Wild Yam, Dong Quia, Mucuna Pruriens, and Maca are great for increasing blood circulation, and reducing inflammation in the clitoris. They will also provide nutrients for the production of neurotransmitters and repair damaged nerve endings.

Finding 'O'

Once these herbs kick in, you should have no problem achieving orgasm. I find that the easiest way for women to climax during intercourse, is to get on top, set the pace, and ride it out. While you are on top of your partner, try leaning forward so that your clitoris is grinding against your man's pubic bone. This move should have you seeing stars in no time at all.