The problem faced by almost every
guy is being able to last long enough for our partner to finish.
We’re not being selfish or inconsiderate. It just happens.
So, we’ve all tried the cliché responses of thinking
about baseball, a math problem, grandma in a tube top, or anything
else that’ll keep us from losing it. But does it really work?
Try as you might, it is still going to happen. The male body was
just designed to orgasm before a woman’s. Speed is built into
the pesky Y chromosome of the species to ensure our survival. So,
maybe that’s a good thing. After all, if you give a woman
enough time, she’ll sober up and realize the horrible mistake
of sleeping with you in the first place. But for those of us who
aren’t as worried that a woman will run away screaming when
the lights come on, here are a few things you can do to please and
satisfy your partner:
Tip #1: Play it Cool
Age has a lot to do with your climax control. Someone older and
more experienced has had time to figure out what works for him to
delay ejaculation. Also with age comes the familiarity to be relaxed
and comfortable during sex. The biggest problem for teens and young
men is the anxiety of being with someone new or being nervous about
sex in general and your skills at it. Or more likely, the sight
and especially the touch of a naked woman is a billion times more
intense than your “alone time” with the hidden stash
of girlie magazines and tapes and of course . . . ta da! The Internet!
Mmm . . . electronic porn.
Being able to relax during sex goes a long way. Realize that sex
isn’t a competition or a test of your manhood. Once you get
comfortable in your own skin (and hers), you’ll be able to
enjoy the moment and your fears and anxieties about sex will pass.
(If you would like to learn more about Performance Anxiety, click
here)
Tip #2: Masturbation?
Another problem with youth – but also a huge factor at any
age – is masturbation. Let’s face it. You’ve just
discovered the wonderland that is your body and the rides are FREEEEE!!
The problem arises when you take a few too many turns. Over
masturbation can actually make you come faster. You’re
teaching your body what feels good and training it to orgasm even
faster than it already does. Remember? 2 to 3 minutes!
We’re not asking you to stop masturbating. What’s the
point of living if that were the case? What we ARE asking you to
do is to make sure you don’t over do it. Excessive masturbation
makes your penis more sensitive. Also, the parasympathetic nerves
responsible for ejaculation control happen to be the same as the
ones that give you an erection. Constant use can “wear out”
the nerves and make it harder for you to not only control ejaculation,
but to get a firm erection in the first place.
Also, over masturbation exerts your body’s resources of hormones
and nutrients. You think sperm just magically appears? Well, sometimes.
But for the other times, the ingredients needed by your body to
produce your demon seeds are also needed for other sexual and bodily
functions. Regulating how much you use up can go a long way in keeping
you from coming too soon.
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