Soft Erections and Premature Ejaculation

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Soft Erections and Premature Ejaculation
Hi, I've recently started experiencing soft erections and premature ejaculation. I'm 37 and have been masturbating just about everyday since I was 13. Between sex and masturbating, I usually ejaculate 2-3 times a day but sometimes more. The vast majority of that comes from masturbating to porn online. When I do this, I usually do it for a 2-3 hours at a time, sometimes more, edging to the point of orgasm. I've always edged during sex too but moreso recently since I my sexual stamina has gone down. I first noticed this a few months ago I was with a new partner and prematuraly ejaculated twice - once when she started performing oral sex and again when we started having sex. I had trouble getting an erection both times, even though i was very attracted to her. This was the first time anything like this happened since the first time I had sex when I was 20. I would usually get an erection easily and last as long as I wanted, as long as I did some edging. This hasn't happened again during sex since then, but I have noticed it harder to get aroused, get an erection, maintain a hard erection and want to ejaculate alot sooner, having to edge more to prevent premature ejaculation. I've also noticed less morning erections and softer ones when I do get one, and requiring more manual stimulation to achieve and maintain an erection for masturbation. I lose erections alot faster now after stimulation. I can no longer get an erection on thought alone, which I never had a problem with for a long time. I can still achive a fairly hard erection after alot of stimulation but not quite as hard as I used to. I also precum alot more - even though I always had a fair bit of precum during masturbation. After thinking about it, this has probably been going on for the past year or so but it's only getting to point of me noticing it now. I always used to have hard morning erections and no trouble achieving or maintaining hard erections during masturbation or sex. I also had a pretty low refractory period. Some other history that I should also say is in my late teens/early teens my hair started thinning alot. This was after having very thick hair up until then. At 23, I started propecia and applying minoxidil to my scalp, which stopped the thinning and regrew most of my hair. I did this for the next 10 years until I started expereincing some anxiety and depression, which I blamed on the propecia and discontinued. Since then, my hair has thinned again, hairline receded and decided to shave my hair off altogether (which I actually kinda like!). I was on anti-depressants for a year after discontinuing propecia and depression/anxiety is gone now. None of this had an effect on my sex-drive. I've always had a very high sex drive. I still have the desire, just the physical problems. I'm not on any medications now. I eat pretty healthy with lots of fruits, nuts, vegetables, protien, etc. I don't smoke or do drugs but do drink alcohol on weekends. The only caffiene is one cup of matcha green tea per day. I'm in good shape, at a good weight, go to the gym regularly and try to stay active. I would love to hear what you think about this and any suggestions you may have. Thanks!
I am very sorry about the
I am very sorry about the late response to this. You have been going through 24 years of constant masturbation and ejaculating several times a day. Your main focus is your hair, or I don't know if that's a problem anymore since you like the bald look. Your erections, stamina and premature ejaculation. It was a lot to read and take in but everyting you said will most likely be reversible. It will just be a long time before you are fully recovered. 

The first step you can take towards recovery is slowing down your masturbation. I know it will be difficult to stop cold turkey but it's best to gradually do it. Narrow it down to once a day then a few times a week. If this habit is continued it will lead to more problems.

Now can I ask for one more thing? Since this is a very severe state of sexual exhaustion you are in can you list out your problems in order of most severe to less severe? This will help see which problems we may have to pay more attention to.
Good luck! Stay healthy my friend.
No problem! Thanks for your
No problem! Thanks for your reply. I have already tried to slow down the masturbation and will continue to do that as suggested. 

Although I like the bald look, I would prefer to have the option of growing my hair out if I wanted to, lol. 

Aside from that problem, I would have to list the other problems (in order of importance) as:

1. Soft erections or trouble getting a full erection
2. Stamina or losing erections faster
2. Alot of precum or leaky penis
3. Premature ejaculation

I list soft erections as #1 because from what I have read here and elsewhere, is it fair to say that if I got a harder erection faster and last longer, that would reduce the amount of precum, allow me to last longer and eliminate premature ejaculation?


Can you possibly look at this
Can you possibly look at this section, :Hair Loss - Caused by Over Masturbation and let me know where you think you would fall under? We can find you help for your hair like this.

That is very true that if you take care of your erections you will be killing a bunch of birds with one stone. It is possible and most likely for this to happen because the basis of your problems seem to be caused by r Weak erections due to overmasturbation. I think you should look into this formula, Astra Vigor & Endurance. Together these herbs will help you achieve those strong erections along with helping you last longer. This should also take care of any precum you experience.
Good luck! Stay healthy my friend.
It's somewhere between
It's somewhere between problematic and severe. A receeding hairline with very little hair on the top left and top right sides of the head with a little more hair up the middle. It's mostly limited to the front of the scalp though with the back half still fairly thick. I should also mention that I've always had alot of gray hair, and started with it at a young age. Would that indicate any kind of deficiency (such as zinc for example) caused by the over masturbation?

I've cut back on masturbating a lot the past few weeks and tried to limit ejacualting only during sex but haven't noticed much difference yet. I'll take a look at Astra Vigor & Endurance. If I continued to ejaculate as much as I used to, is there something I could take that would counteract the effects of sexual exhaustion and hair loss (i.e. replenish what I'm losing). I'm just wondering if there's a way to have my cake and eat it too, lol. Also, this may sound disgusting, but would eating your own semen after ejaculating help at all? I'm just thinking it might be better to keep those nutrients in your body. This is not a joke. What do you think?
The hairloss and hair color
The hairloss and hair color deficiency might be a sign of your body overproducing DHT. Your bdoy needs DHT but too much of it or too little of it can be bad. You can read more on here, Hair Loss - Caused by Over Masturbation.

I don't really understand your counteracting effects of sexual exhaustion you're talking about. If you start ejaculating too much you want to know of something that will help you not feel sexually exhausted? I'm confused. Also, the last question you asked is not anywhere on this website and I don't have any experience or know of anyone with experience or even of any data that will show that. You will have to look for yourself. Sorry.
Good luck! Stay healthy my friend.
premature ejaculation
Dear sir I am 24 years I started mastruburate at 15th .Now I am facing premature ejaculating problem.penis does not get harder as earlier.less than one minute intercourse I can have.this problem was slowly slowly start from last 2 years.
That's really close to
That's really close to masturbating for 10 years. Was it always excessive? About how many times a day/week? The premature ejaculation and weak erection problems are both common effects that happen because of too much masturbation. I have a question, did you always last 1 minute or how long was it before?
Good luck! Stay healthy my friend.
suffering due to masturbation please help!
Ok so im 16 and i have acne and i masturbate almost everyday and have been since i was 13 ithink that every time i masturbate i get weaker and increase my acne doea this happens because of masturbation and even thinking about sex makes me precum so is that bad and i feel kind of weak if i masturbate everytime is this because of masturbation and i also developed anxiety i had a panic attack once and i also think im depressed i read ur articles about masturbation but is all this possible just because of 3 years of overmasturbation and i try to control masturbating but i cant and end up doing it very often and it makea me feel so guiltu that i just increased my acne so are all my problems because of masturbation or its something else?
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