Loong term Sex Addiction Hit Ground Zero- Need Serious Help

i am 26 yrs old, i got introduced to masturbation at the age of 13. i was a dedicated student and never skipped school.
I got introduced to porn at the age of 16. and my frequency of watching porn increased significantly when i was 19.(Thats when i got my PC). This continued for yrs, I masturbated atleast 3 times a week(watching porn) since then. 
At 22 i started drinking, my amount of time spending on porn constantly increased. It reached to a point where i wont sleep without watching porn. At 23-24, My avg ejaculations were ranged 6-10 times a week. I got introduced to smoking and other things. These things fueled me to watch more and more porn and ejaculate. Untill i realized that i have trouble remembering things, fatigue, started loosing interest in life.(even though i gratduated with a 4 GPA). I lost grit and enthu to pursue my career.

I (in late 2011) realized that i am in deep trouble, my forgetfulness increased,always felt less energetic, want to sleep all the time, lost confidence, depressed,....but this propelled me to take alcohol  watch more porn to just get rid of depressive mood. I continued to research about these symptoms all over the place. i started with reading phsycology books trying to understand whats happening to my mental status, mental health books, addictive behaviour and what not. I came to a point where i found  that i am addicted to masturbation and porn. I quite the job and moved out of the city to avoid all the contacts which encourage me to loose control and party.( As i eventually  end up watching porn, when i come back home being on influence). I moved to another city for new yr and start life.

I tried many ways to fight myself to come out of it...i had highs and lows in these past 10 months fighting hard. i was constantly getting in and out of the addicitve loop. so many depressive days, restless nights. 
My body was in a loop of ejaculating, I could not control myself. I felt A tremondous amount of force was dragging me to get relieved. Even though i was soft, My body would want to me to just get into ejaculation mode. I felt my life is getting sucked out of my penis through ejaculation.
I got a job in march.I came across herballove emailed them and got introduced to Love Longer III (Via Growth and Mind Rejunevator) used it for one month. (in April). I controlled myself and reduced masturbation to once a month.By the time, i felt that there is hope, I lost my job. Which devasted me to an exit, and   accepted defeat from my life. But when i first masturbated again i lasted long and felt i was back my depression at this point dragged me to that old addictive comfort zone. For  the next 3 months i was drowned in alcohol, masturbation, multiple orgasm like within 20 mins(even though i was soft). I tortured myself to kill myself accepting defeat.
I was constantly going around these loop of in and out coz of my mood swings.

From august i was introduced to meditation which helped me to control anxiety, improved self control. learning to regulate myself.
Its pretty much a month now that i didnot masturbate or watch porn. during this time i felt the urge to get relieved many times but i didn.
 (i remember reading Dr Lin's Case studies which said...when you are taking these herbal supplements donot take alcohol and should stop masturbating).
 
So first i want to stop masturbating and control myself before i ask for help.
i dont take alcohol or any other things anymore.

Now i would like to explain my symptoms.

No morning erections (still)
penis is soft all the time even though i get the urge, there is no erection.
Pain in the lower back after masturbation,
fatigue, cloudiness, depression, forgetfulness, too many thoughts at one time. Lose of expressiveness,
the day after i masturbate, my Heartbeat was hard as if it was resonating my body.
sudden pains in my brain, anal region, knees and at random places(felt like it was related to nerves),
vibration in my legs, near anal region(prostate region).
Insomania - horrible experiences i could not sleep for 2 days straight couple of times.(latest was this past weekend) At that time i feel uneasiness (irritating feeling) in my hands and legs. feel like i should  make my body moving.
Now a days i am experiencing my left foot is cold at nights.
severe Hair loss- lost lot of hair, within 10 months.
blurred vision- felt it but i am not sure.
severe constipation and digestive problems. (drinking vegetable juice with high fibre for bowl movement)
got my blood test - Very high cholesterol.Vitamin D defficiency.
Frequent urination, and discomfort during urination, Need bit effort to empty complelty.
I have been waking up early morning to pee for past month.
I feel that my prostate is enlarged.


I am now eating 3 times a day and a vegetable juice for more energy, also taking fish oil for omega-3 and control cholesterol. Multi- vitamins along with meal (but not regularly)

I appreciate your suggestions and guidance in pulling me out of this situation.
I know its going to take a while for me to get into complete normal but i want to see my new me before i end this life.