They Plump When You Stroke ‘Em – Jelqing Your Junk

Ian Kane's picture
By Ian Kane Conditions: Men's Penis Enlargement Age: 18 - 35

Here is a gentleman that is experiencing problems maintaining hard erections, and he’s only 42 years old. What can he do to improve his erection quality and overall sex life?

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My girlfriend and I are ready to start having sex but I am really scared about the size of my penis that I have become ashamed of it. I have gone out looking for the perfect condoms and I was out of the luck, they were all too big. My penis is only 4.3 inches when it is fully erect. I just want to grow so at least she can feel something and it would be even better if I made her moan. I want to be confident about this when we finally have sex and also be able to fit into a condom, it's a shame that I can't find one that fits me. Please advise me if there is anything I can do to grow my penis.


Let’s face it; as a man, the nitty-gritty of fulfilling a woman sexually is very penis-size centric. Yes, having lots of money is attractive to many women. Yes, having muscles and a washboard stomach is considered “hot” by others. And yes, being a bad boy still gets you a lot of tail and trumps being a nice guy (until women get older and start to look for the stable Poindexter types).
But unless you’re in your later years and are committed and married for life (increasingly rare these days), sexual prowess is an integral part of any healthy relationship, and penis power sits front and center. And no; none of this is politically correct but it’s the truth.
A Desperate Search
Men who feel inadequate in the junk-size department may undertake the age-old quest for gaining a couple of inches in order to appear more attractive to women when they drop their undies. Nothing could possibly be more debilitating and damaging to a man’s confidence and ego than taking off his boxers or tighty-whities and be greeted by laughter or a look of disappointment from a perspective sex partner.
Whether it be from being obese, aging and losing testosterone, or even just being chronically stressed out, a reduction in penis size can be dismaying. Men who masturbate excessively can also have shrinkage issues as plaque builds up within their penile blood chambers which normally engorge with blood when aroused. The bottom line here is what can you do in order to make some real gains in penis size, right?
Technique over Tugging
First, if you are masturbating chronically (more than 4 times per week) take a break and slow down your frequency. This will allow your body to begin to heal and recover some of its exhausted sex hormones and neurotransmitters.
One useful technique, when used correctly, can reap penis size improvement over time: Jelqing. This technique can expand the penis by pumping blood filled with nutrients and hormones, into penile tissues, as well as expanding the tiny interconnected chambers which engorge with blood upon arousal. (SEE: Jelqing Technique for Increased Penis Size)
In order to properly use this method, you must adequately prepare your junk by applying some herbal-based lube to it so that it will be less prone to injury. Then, you take your index finger and connect it to your thumb around the base of your penis (or as close as possible if you’re too thick). Begin stroking your member up and outward toward your glans (penis head).
You can even make this “fun therapy” for you and your prospective sex partner by having her perform the hand motions with one or both hands, or have one hand perform the movements while her other one cups your testicles for elevated pleasure. Making out and eye contact can also get your blood pumping. Experiment with it and see what suits you, and after utilizing this technique you can have her blowing out your ear drums with loud moans!

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Jelqing Technique For Bigger Penis Size

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Toshia Mosby's picture
Toshia Mosby posted on Mon, 07/21/2014 - 14:24
after reading the comment above i think i will ask my boyfriend to try this. he’s not that small around 5 inches i think but it would be better if he was bigger! when we have sex i can’t feel much and i have to use a vibrater. i read how its not good to use a vibrater all the time cuz it can make your clit not so sensitive and also give you pains? so i try to just use it when I’m alone and have sex with him normally, but i just can’t feel much! i wonder if theres any way to increase the thickness of his cock as well as the length? i think i would like sex better if his pennis filled me up more. what can i do to enjoy sex more with him? i want to ask him to try some new techniques, but I’m afraid he’ll be to ashamed. any tips? [Women}
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Marc Robinson posted on Fri, 07/18/2014 - 10:25
I want to start jelqing, but I don’t really see the difference between it and plain old masturbating, except that you don’t cum. Is it that the action is beneficial, but the hormones released during orgasm ruin the effect? It seems like just slow-motion jacking off, and what do you do after you’ve finished a session? Surely you’re going to need some kind of relief! I feel like if I practiced this with my girlfriend I would just end up blowing my load every time!

I’ve read that there are such things as kegals for men, is this something I can look into to increase my size? I know for women it makes them tighter, so for men does it make them bigger? I know it’s something to do with muscles, and I read that the penis doesn’t have any muscles itself, but I just wondered if this was an option. I think anything that keeps my hands away from my dick will work much better towards gaining size and not ejaculating.
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Kim Porter posted on Wed, 07/16/2014 - 14:36
My boyfriend and I have been practicing jelqing together for several months now, and I definitely think it’s working! He started at a tiny 4 inches, but he’s increased a full inch since we’ve been doing this technique. Each time, we start him a little aroused, just so that his penis has some blood pumping, and then we take turns gently stretching the penis through the ring-shaped hand motion suggested. He even says that it makes sex more enjoyable for him, as his penis seems more sensitive. It also seems like he gets hard faster. We jelq a few times per week, as he’s afraid about damage to his penis if we practice more than that. I’m so happy to have found a solution that works, without a lot of pharmaceuticals. We’re both past our first youth, and I was worried about the effects continual pill usage would have on him. If you’re looking to grow, try jelqing!
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