Pinch It Off: Holding Back Orgasm with Just Two Fingers

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By Kate Gorrell Conditions: Men's Premature Ejaculation Causes: tipped uterus Age: 18 - 35

She’s sick and tired of him always cumming too quickly. They’ve tried other methods in the past, but none seem to give good results. She’s looking for a better way to keep him going strong. What can she try?

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My boyfriend always cums before I want him to. We’ve tried all kinds of things to solve the problem, but he always cums too quick! I need some sort of serious control method to try on him, because the last minute pullouts and stop and start techniques aren’t doing anything for us. It’s honestly not even fun to have sex anymore, because I never get a chance to enjoy myself! Please can you help?


How irritating for you! It’s worse that you’ve tried other routines that haven’t worked; that’s got to be so frustrating. It’s often difficult for couples to find a happy medium in regards to how long is long enough in bed. I bet you worry that you’re stuck with a lousy lay for the rest of your life, aren’t you? Well, I’ve got a tip about his tip that’ll have you sitting pretty in no time.
Grip the Tip
It’s called the Masters and Johnson’s Squeeze Method. It sounds super intense, I know. It is a pretty intense alternative, utilizing actual negative reinforcement to prevent your boyfriend from cumming, and teaching him how to resist the orgasmic impulse. It consists of you gripping your boyfriend’s penis tightly, directly under the head, right before he orgasms. The sensation will be strong, but shouldn’t be painful, and will prevent him from actually reaching orgasm.

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Shock Him Out of It
It works by compressing a nerve bundle found on the dorsal side of the penis—the frenulum. Now, you can give a man extreme gratification by stimulating this very area, but when it’s compressed out of the blue during pleasurable sexual intercourse, it’s really a sort of shock to the man. He will generally lose between ten and thirty percent of his erection. That’s totally normal. Imagine how it feels to you when someone interferes with your orgasm process!
Good Boy
It probably sounds scary from the outset, and you need to carefully explain to your boyfriend what’s going to happen during the procedure before you start practicing, or he might completely flip out and never want to try again! However, it’s a simple and quick way to ensure positive results. It’s rather like training a dog; the animalistic side of the body must learn to occasionally cede to the imperatives of the brain, i.e. not cumming.
Safety First
With you being as hands-on as you’ll have to be during this method, it’s important that both you and your boyfriend feel comfortable and relaxed as much as possible. Any sort of stress or anxiety will only cause a further negative outcome with your boyfriend, and the situation can raise tensions in both of you that will need to be discussed in an open, safe sexual environment. Don’t worry, though, I’m sure you won’t have any problems, and you’ll finally be achieving the results you want. Good luck!

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Masters and Johnson's Squeeze Method

Developed by Masters and Johnson, the squeeze method suggests stimulating the man to the brink, when he feels the onset of orgasm he is to squeeze his penis hard enough to inhibit ejaculation. Read more
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