A Little Worried about a Growing Problem: His Wife’s Vagina is no Longer Tight

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By Jean Dohm Conditions: Women's Vaginal Looseness Causes: aging vagina vibrator damage Age: 36 - 55

After eight years of marriage, he’s noticing an increasing problem with his wife’s vagina: it’s not as tight as it used to be. Sexual intercourse also is not as pleasurable. He believes her previous dalliances with sex toys have caused permanent damage, and now he wants answers as to how they can rekindle the bedroom flame.

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My wife and I have been together for eight years, but lately I have noticed she isn’t as tight as she used to be. We have sex, and every single time it feels like I am with a new person. She has a history of using a vibrator, especially when we were just dating, before we got married. Could the vibrator be the cause of my wife’s loose vagina?


The words “loose vagina” fall from the lips of many men and women who have been married a while. This problem is not unique to just one partner – it affects both and can dramatically change the way they make love. For some unlucky couples, it can even turn intercourse from an incredible experience to one that is, well, lackluster.
So, what causes a loose vagina? Time is the biggest culprit because it forces a woman out of her childbearing years to middle age. This factor cannot be helped and does not impede upon a woman’s desire for or ability to enjoy sex. But it does explain the dramatic changes that occur to her body as she matures.
How a Woman’s Vagina Ages
During her early years, a woman’s vagina is bathed in hormones – primarily estrogen and progesterone. Both are produced by the ovaries and regulate such functions as the menstrual cycle, sexual desire and pregnancy. They also contribute to a healthy vagina by encouraging vaginal tissues that easily stretch and contract during sex and childbirth. In addition, hormones keep muscles strong and thick so they wrap around a penis during intercourse and produce pleasurable feelings of friction.
As a woman ages, her hormone levels naturally decline. This is because the ovaries stop functioning, not in response to a health problem but because the body slowly loses its ability to bear children. As the ovaries stop producing follicles that release eggs, they also reduce the production of estrogen and progesterone. In response, the vagina loses its elasticity. Muscles go from firm to loose, thus explaining the loss of sensation during sex.

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Shedding New Light on Sex Toys
Using a vibrator is not likely to cause permanent damage to the vagina or clitoris. Many health professionals agree intercourse and masturbation with a sex toy can even improve the vagina’s condition. During orgasm, a woman’s vaginal, uterine and pelvic floor muscles contract. This keeps them robust in the much the same way that exercising arm and leg muscles improves their strength. Orgasm also releases hormones that keep vaginal walls lush and tight. Without these processes, the vagina becomes thin and brittle.
The real problem with sex toys, therefore, is their inadvertent contribution to an aging vagina. As already explained, estrogen and progesterone are required for a tight and youthful vagina. But the chemicals found in many personal lubricants and sex toys are toxic and can significantly alter hormone levels.
Lubricants often contain parabens that interfere with natural estrogen levels. Sex toys similarly contain phthalates that disrupt endocrine functions in the ovaries. So, again, they upset the production of estrogen and progesterone. In this manner, these agents also contribute to an aging vagina. As consumers, you and your wife must ask for information from the novelty store where you purchase your toys. If you no longer use vibrators and dildos to enhance sexual pleasure, still take care when purchasing lubricants.
Help Your Wife, Help Yourself
The chemicals that enter the body from sex toys can linger for a long time, especially when compounded with toxins from food, the environment and routine medications. At this point, your wife needs to detoxify her body. An herbal rejuvenation formula with ingredients like Chrysanthemum, Milk Thistle and Suma can expel toxins and help the body work more efficiently. (SEE: Vaginal Detox & Restoration Formula for Loose Vagina) Herbs have a dual purpose as well: they stimulate the growth of healthy vaginal tissues and help rejuvenate tired nerve endings. Both you and your wife will feel the stronger, tighter vaginal muscles that quickly ensue with this formula.

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