Keeping Kids Out of Your Bed

Mothers and fathers of newborns and infants understand a common axiom about parenthood: Prepare for less sleep and even less sex. Your coronation as a new mother or father requires these small scarifies, but as your child ages, you start to regain your normal sleep and sex habits.

For mothers and fathers who allow their children to sleep in their beds, however, a common trend emerges: more sleep but much less sex. 
 

Why You Should Keep Your Kids Out of Your Bedroom

Rather than hear the baby send out of shrill throughout the house, it’s easier to bring a child into your bed. Your adorable little one may not scream as loud or cry with the same rancor, but by bringing your child into your bed, you breed a habit of dependency that places a wedge between you and your partner.

The longer you allow the pattern to occur the following habits start to form:

Less sex: The issue is obvious, but still, some parents eschew the warnings for quieter nights. 
 
Sleep comfort: As your children grows older, he will want to continue to sleep with you. As he grows, the comfort you experience will diminish. If your child tosses and turns, prepare for knees and elbows in your stomach or back. You’ll awake with plenty of back, neck and even stomach pains.
 
Altered sanctuary: Treat your bedroom like a sanctuary. The bedroom is for you and your partner. It’s a place where both individuals can share their desires and express their sexual needs. 
 
Damaged bond: You partner may feel irked by children in the bedroom. It can damage your sex life and it definitely will alter your emotions.