Can “Fifty Shades of Grey” Save Your Sex Life?
“Fifty Shades of Grey” has become a worldwide phenomenon. Having sold millions of copies and even becoming the basis for an upcoming film, the influence of this steamy erotica book series remains apparent. Since it first released, it has been affectionately—or perhaps not so affectionately—branded with the nickname “mommy porn.” We know that you have a copy tucked discreetly at the bottom of your sock drawer (don't deny it), but can “Fifty Shades of Grey” actually reinvigorate your sex life?
50 Shades of Seduction
If you have been with the same partner for 10, 20 or 30 years, sex becomes stale. The sex remains pretty uniform from one evening to the next. If you're like the majority of long-time couples, you have sex whenever you can find the time or whenever you’re not too exhausted, and it's largely limited to a few minutes of foreplay followed by monotonous missionary intercourse and a night of good sleep.
But what if you could recreate the excitement and anticipation from early in your courtship? Though you may see books like “Fifty Shades of Grey” as merely an escape from reality, these seductive works of literature may actually possess within them some great ideas that you can apply to your own sexual trysts.
Now I'm not suggesting that you have to go for all-out bondage, if that makes you uncomfortable. You don't have to get tied spread-eagle to the bed and have hot candle wax dripped onto your body. But by simply experimenting with some simple bondage games, you can turn predictable sex life into something new and exhilarating.
Start off simple, perhaps with a pair of handcuffs. It's important that the experience be enjoyable and comfortable for both partners, so discuss your boundaries with each other, and start having the time of your life. You may also find reading erotica books together and reenacting favorite scenes highly stimulating.
The Benefits
Creativity in the bedroom breaks free from the doldrums of routine sex. Most importantly, sex should be about trust, so you and your partner will bond not only on a physical level, but also on an emotional level. The added excitement and anticipation will even cause your brain to release additional feel-good hormones, heightening the sensations even more.
So don't just look at “Fifty Shades of Grey” as “mommy porn.” Look at “Fifty Shades of Grey” (or your personal favorite work of erotica, whatever that may be) as a learning tool. Explore the possibilities; push the boundaries; and dare I say, introduce a bit of bondage into the bedroom. You may never look at sex the same way again.
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