Question:

I suffer from chronic over-masturbation using Hitachi Magic Wand to stimulate the clitoris, vibrator for insertion and most of the time accompanied by watching porno. I have read a lot on your site and I apparently have persistent sexual arousal syndrome. I wrote to you three years ago and got off the pill but never purchased any products. I have been trying to stick to the "Blood Type Diet" for the past year and a half. It seems like some of the G-spot erection has come back since quitting the pill, but it seems that a lot of my hormones are even more out of whack since getting off the pill. I think I have been experiencing the crunching/ringing in my ear problem people have mentioned in this site. I have been masturbating with the electric wand at least every morning and sometimes in the evening for over ten years. I don't like to make any plans and can't keep a job because of this problem. I have had recurrent UTI's worse than ever this year. I haven't had a regular sex partner in 4 1/2 years and the few times I have had sex it seemed to aggravate the situation because I couldn't reach orgasm with a partner and they would "leave me hanging," which, for a PSAS sufferer, is not an option. I have had constant pain in abdomen with severe feeling of pressure, bloating and more currently am experiencing the pain in the left side of lower back.

I don't have insurance and have had a hard time getting any relief. I went out to get 5-HTP, Fish & Borage & Evening Primrose Oils, GABA Plus and Progesterone Cream and it seems like the bulge in my mid-abdomen area is smaller and putting less pressure on my bladder. I have a compulsive need to douche after I "get off" and every time I shower. This started about age 27-30 and I think was brought on by my feeling unclean from having herpes and from getting off everyday. I was on Minocycline for my skin for about 10 years and other skin antibiotics since I was 22, so I had recurrent yeast infections which also contributed to the douching/OCD behavior. I am currently taking Lorazepam when the symptoms associated with over-masturbation and severe anxieties are unbearable.

I can't hold a job because my stomach starts hurting sitting at a desk and I can't find any doctors who can even diagnose me or help me. I'm broke, scared, and much of the time severely suicidal. I do, however, feel a sense of hope after reading all the success stories on your site. I recently started sleeping with a friend out of sexual frustration and also was thinking regular semen might relieve some of my discomfort. However, he can't keep an erection and it feels like you say - sexual harassment - not getting the deep penetration. I need to hit the 3-spots and especially epicenter. We tried Conceptrol for birth control several times but one time I had a severe yeast-like reaction so we used a rubber the past two times, which defeats the purpose of getting the prostaglandins from the semen into my system.

I feel like a lot of my problems were brought on by lousy, selfish lovers and now my problems were brought on by lack of any penile stimulation and ejaculation in me. I need your help. It sounds like I should take DeToxiA and vial pack M and PinealTonin, but I don't want to aggravate an unbearable problem by ordering the wrong thing. I don't smoke, do drugs, or lead an unhealthy lifestyle other than the one brought on by this debilitating problem. I feel like I'm living in bondage and you are my only hope at regaining my sanity and life back. Please, please advise.

Sorry this is so lengthy but want to get the right diagnosis because up until the last month or so one orgasm that took over an hour to achieve would at least satisfy me until the evening, but something started happening recently where it almost seemed as if I was multi-orgasmic but never reaching a satiated state and it scared me. I thought about going back on the pill to get my body back to at least being satisfied with one orgasm, but not sure if my body is changing due to age or what is going on. I also have so much pressure in the lower abdominal region that sometimes it seems like rectal prolapse.

I've been taking 5-HTP, fish oils, etc. for the past 4 days and trying to hit the epicenter when masturbating and it seems that is shrinking something down in my abdomen. All the symptoms I've described get worse from ovulation to beginning of menstrual cycle and this has gotten worse since getting off the pill. I look forward to hearing from you ASAP so I can place my order, and hopefully I can get a job and keep it. I can't bear living with others until this problem goes away, if it ever does, and I've only got about $500 to my name as have not worked for a long time. No one understands I have a real health problem I can't get resolved.

Answer:

First of all, I am very sorry for all your bad experiences. Your symptoms are the result of over-masturbation, excessive use of a vibrator, and overall sexual exhaustion. You have to understand, it is extremely dangerous to use a vibrator as often and for as long as you have. You can do major damage to your clitoris, even losing your sexual sensitivity altogether.

Excessive use of a vibrator leads to overproduction of androgen hormones, causing adrenal and sex organ fatigue, and excess release of dopamine to maintain prolonged sexual arousal. Since dopamine is the precursor to the stress hormone epinephrine (adrenaline), excess dopamine results in the adrenal glands overproducing epinephrine and putting the body in a prolonged state of fight-or-flight stress. At the same time, norepinephrine is synthesized from dopamine and released from the adrenal medulla into the blood as a hormone, along with the stress hormone cortisol. Epinephrine, norepinephrine and cortisol fuel the fight-or-flight response, directly increasing heart rate, triggering the release of glucose from energy stores, and increasing blood flow to skeletal muscle. All of this has a severely taxing effect on the body.

The hormone prostaglandin E-2, which serves an important function in sexual arousal, is also overproduced and has an inflammatory effect on the body, damaging tissues, nerves and joints, weakening immunity, causing muscular and nervous pain, and promoting infection, inflammation, and even cancer. Chronic elevation of epinephrine and prostaglandin E2 results in severe damage to brain cells and parasympathetic nerves in the liver, lungs, adrenal glands, heart, blood vessels, digestive system, pancreas, gallbladder, ovaries, uterus, cervix, testicles and prostate. As a result, you can experience a variety of symptoms, including depression, anxiety, bodily pains, persistent sexual arousal and sexual dysfunction such as impotence and premature ejaculation in men and a lack of sexual stimulation in women.

All of this over-activity and stress causes the pituitary gland and ovaries to become disabled for a few days or even months, leading to a long refraction time or a long-term sexual exhaustion and inflammation. An extremely exhausted adrenal function can cause an extreme low level of DHEA and cortisol, resulting in fatigue and pains throughout the body, including the back. You may experience pains for a couple of days until your prolactin and cortisol levels are returned to their normal ranges.

In order to reverse the ill-effects of over-masturbation, stop sexual activity for a few weeks. Let your body rest and replenish. Then you can come back to it with a lower frequency.

ViaPal-HGH-P, ArginOx and fish oil (1000 mg each meal) will help you gradually rejuvenate your neuro-endocrine function and boost your prostaglandin E-1/E-3, oxytocin and nitric oxide production for erection and orgasm. American ginseng and maca help to rejuvenate your entire body. Horny goat weed and yohimbe will help increase flood flow and nutrient absorption to your sex organs.

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