Reducing or stopping masturbation may not be enough to undo all the damage caused by excessive masturbation. Find out what else needs to be done.
Question:
I'm a 33-year old sexually unattached male suffering from severe premature ejaculation. I admit now that I suffer from over masturbation and a leaky penis.
My seminal fluid leakage became worse several months ago. I felt like I peed in my pants after looking at a woman in a short skirt.
My erections when I'm awake are becoming more involuntary. It is now at the 3 o’clock position when before it was at the 4 or 5 o’clock.
I need to fix this leaky penis problem now, please help.
Answer:
Your premature ejaculation and leaky penis seems most definitely caused by over masturbation – which can weaken the parasympathetic nerves, deplete neurotransmitters, and strain the muscles and tissues involved with ejaculation control.
Masturbation also overstimulates the sympathetic nervous function to increase sensitivity. In other words, you’ve set all your sexual responses on high and have destroyed the off button.
But there does seem to be plenty of hope for you. You mentioned how your erections are becoming more involuntary and stronger (3 o’clock position) than before. This is a good sign. Erections are supposed to be involuntary. They are controlled by your parasympathetic nervous function, which is part of your autonomic nervous system.
This is the system responsible for things like breathing, heartbeat, and digestion. The stronger the parasympathetic side is (half of the autonomic nervous system) the stronger your ability to delay ejaculation and stop seminal leakages.
Having your erection at the 3 o’clock position now instead of the 4 or 5 o’clock position is also better. But your penis is still weak and not as hard as it should be. A healthy body should have an erection between the 1 and 2 o’clock position.
To cure all your problems you need to repair the damage you have done to your nervous system.
First, return your sympathetic impulses (the urge to orgasm) back to normal. Stop masturbation for a while (as long as you can) and then return to it with a reduced frequency.
Use the Natural Ejaculation Control Technique to retrain your body when to ejaculate.
Reduce the stress and anxiety in your life and reduce or discontinue the use of caffeine and cigarettes, which all add to the sympathetic stimulation. To fully soothe the sympathetic nerves, herbal aids that contain grape seed extracts and muira puama should be used.
Healing the parasympathetic (the other half of the autonomic nervous system – responsible for erections and ejaculation control) function of your body can be just as easy. The reduced or ceased masturbation will allow the body to heal itself and replenish the neurotransmitters (the chemicals used to send messages from the brain to the rest of your body) needed for proper ejaculation control.
However, depending on your severity, your body may not be able to heal itself on its own. It takes proper nutrition to provide the essential building blocks used to produce hormones.
Besides improving your diet (less red meat, more soy products, more fruits and vegetables, and the reduction or avoidance of alcohol) and more exercise, herbal supplements that contain cistanche, cornus, damiana, and white peony root should be used. They will help to strengthen the nerves, tissues, and muscles used to control ejaculation and stop seminal leaks.
They will also provide you with a harder erection and more energy for sex and everyday activities.
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