Question:

Help! I cum too fast. I have visited my family doctor and was told that the head of my penis is very sensitive compared to those who have been circumcised.

I always doubted this explanation because I don’t cum as fast during masturbation, but cum fairly quickly while having sex with my girl friend. I got especially nervous having sex with my current girlfriend whom I have started seeing since two weeks ago. I am afraid to loose her.

I see no hope with my family doctor and there is no way I will get another circumcision again. Please help.


Answer:

First, circumcision is not the problem. Also, you can’t get another one, so don’t worry about that.

Secondly, it is possible to come too fast during sex and not masturbation, for several reasons. You are probably not touching the tip of your penis as much during masturbation. Your hand is wrapped around the shaft and does not come into contact with the tip as much as sex would.

Also, sex is far more intense than masturbation. With masturbation, you are alone and can be relaxed without the smell, touch, and even the sound of another person.

Most likely, it is only the sight of the pornographic material you are using. Sex provides a much stronger stimulation to all your senses, which are all tied into the sympathetic nerves that build and eventually cause you to orgasm and ejaculate.

You mentioned how you get nervous having sex with your girlfriend. The added anxiety of it being a new relationship of only two weeks is definitely overstimulating your senses. I doubt you get this nervous when you masturbate; after all, there is no need to impress your hand.

Once you become more comfortable sleeping with her, your anxieties and fears will slowly disappear. This will bring back the control you are losing by being so excited and nervous. In the meantime, there are a few things you can do to help this process along.

First, reduce or even stop masturbating. Masturbation actually trains your body to ejaculate. Because ejaculation is an involuntary response like your reflexes, constant use will quicken this reaction. It’s like training in martial arts. You constantly go through and repeat exercises, so you can block a blow or make a kick faster. Masturbation is the exercise that makes you come faster when you have sex.

Another thing you can do is to bring your autonomic nervous system back into balance. This part of your nervous system is made up of two parts: the sympathetic (which takes in stimulation from your senses and makes you ejaculate) and the parasympathetic (which fights the sympathetic to help you delay ejaculation and provide an erection).

In a healthy person, the parasympathetic is always stronger. Sex, masturbation, and foreplay build the sympathetic stimulation until it peaks and overpowers your parasympathetic, resulting in an orgasm and ejaculation.

To ensure a calm sympathetic and a strong parasympathetic, you can reduce the amount of stress in your life. A proper diet and exercise will also help balance these two opposing forces.

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The added benefit of a stronger libido with more energy will make your new girlfriend think you are a stud.

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