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I Can’t Have Sex Because I Ejaculate During Foreplay

He doesn’t last very long and he hasn’t even had sex yet. What can he do to solve his very serious premature ejaculation?



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Question:

Thank you for providing advice & solutions to people with these problems. If you wouldn't mind I would like to ask you a few questions on my own problems and hope that you can help me with this.

To give you some background information on myself, I am only 18 yrs of age and am very worried that I may suffer from premature ejaculation. I have been in a relationship for 5 and half months, which resulted in my first ever foreplay experience about 2 months into the relationship.

During that experience, I didn't last very long, in fact, probably around the 20-second mark. My girlfriend was a little shocked at the time but we managed to talk about it and we thought it might have been my only experience. However I have improved on the time spent ejaculating but I still may only last a few minutes. Sometimes the time does vary for some strange reason. For example, I may last anywhere from 3-10 minutes with the 10-minute mark rarely being reached, we usually partake in foreplay 1-3 times a week.

We have had a few sessions which have lasted about an hour or so, but that’s mainly down to stopping and starting for a few seconds or when she has reached her climax and is ready for another round. We have talked about having sex for quite a while now as both of us have found that special person. I have also backed out of having sex a few times to the surprise of my girlfriend but I want my first time to be special and most importantly so does my girlfriend and I don't want to be hindered by any problems.

I have searched this site in hopes of solving this problem and have been tempted by some of the products as I feel some methods would be hard to attempt. First, I would like to know if I require any products and secondly that I can use the products without any problem because of my young age. I would also like to point out that I suffer from depression and can be very anxious at times.

I thank you very much for providing information about this and would very much appreciate any advice you can give me on this matter.


Answer:

It’s a little unclear what you mean by “foreplay.”

Did you two have oral sex or was it just petting and touching? If it was oral sex, then you do have a premature ejaculation problem. If it was just petting and touching, then you have a very serious premature ejaculation problem.

Either way, it seems your body gets too excited and anxious at the thought of sex, which is known as “performance anxiety.”

Normally, it takes a fair amount of time to charge up the sympathetic nerves before you have an orgasm, like taking the time to blow up a balloon. In your case, the balloon is already full when you begin your foreplay.

Which is why you “pop” so soon!

This condition is very common in teens and young adults who are still new to sex. They are shy and nervous about their bodies and sexual abilities.

Also, the excitement of a naked woman is more intense than anything they have ever experienced. Since this is your first sexual experience and you’ve only been seeing your girlfriend for a few months, all of this is still overwhelming – especially since you are still worrying about having sex for the first time.

There are a few things you can do to cure your problem. First, you had asked if you are required to take herbal products.

The answer is – No.

There are other ways to conquer your situation. However, herbal products are the easiest and most effective solution. Herbal remedies like EndurMax & ViaGrowth III is specially designed to treat premature ejaculation caused by performance anxiety. This herbal blend will help soothe and calm the sympathetic impulses that lead to your ejaculation, so you can delay it for as long as you wish.

It will also restore the balance of hormones that your anxiety has upset, especially helpful at your age, since your hormones are already unbalanced and changing.

You had mentioned how you feel depressed. This is due to a very specific hormone that you are lacking – serotonin. Serotonin is used to create a happy mood and used as a neurotransmitter for sex and other motor functions.

Have you had trouble sleeping too? Because serotonin is also responsible for giving you a good night’s rest. Herbs will help your body produce more serotonin and bring your body back into proper balance.

Along with herbs, you should also reduce or completely stop masturbating.

Excessive masturbation depletes a lot of needed substances from the body, which is why you don’t have enough when you’re with your girlfriend. Also, masturbation trains your nerves to react faster, which again adds to your problem.

Lastly, what you are going through is very common. With age and experience, you will overcome your anxiety and insecurities about sex.

With comfort comes the experience of knowing your own body and what it takes to delay orgasm. Also, the raging hormones you are still experiencing from puberty will have settled to create a more consistent sexual reaction.

Best suggestion, take the herbal supplements to help you now and let experience and age slowly take over. And definitely keep your masturbation to a minimum. Now and later.


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