What can you do when you can’t eliminate the stress from your life? And is there anything that can be done when sex gets you too excited?
Question:
I am 31-years old and very stressed. I get too excited and stressed out when having sex.
It makes me want to ejaculate in the first five minutes. It gets a lot worse when my girlfriend asks me to go faster (pump faster).
How can I last longer in such an intense circumstance? I cannot bring her to orgasm with my penis. I do not last that long!! BTW, your case study responses are very helpful.
Answer:
Stress and being too excited are very common problems. They are also very closely related.
Your body reacts in a very specific way under these circumstances in what is known as a “fight or flight” response.
Your blood pressure rises, adrenaline and blood sugar increase to provide more energy, blood vessels to less important areas (your genitals, for instance) are cut off to bring more of the blood into your arms and legs, digestion shuts down, breathing increases, and your heart pumps faster. Your brain, in reaction to your circumstances, brings all of these physical changes about by overstimulating the sympathetic nervous system.
This is great when you’re in danger or need to complete a task. However, it’s also the cause of your premature ejaculation.
The human body’s urge to orgasm is prompted by your sympathetic nervous system. Usually, it takes the physical touching and mental stimulation from sex to build this impulse to a point where you can orgasm. In your case, you’ve already stimulated the sympathetic long before sex begins.
It’s like letting your car engine idle for hours and hours before you even start driving. It’s no wonder you’re running out of gas so soon during sex.
The obvious solution to your problem is to cut down on the stress in your life. But for most people, that’s not possible, especially if the stress is from work. So the next option is to directly “calm” the sympathetic nerves.
A simple and free solution is by using the Natural Ejaculation Control Technique. These breathing exercises will help you soothe the body and counteract some of the mild anxiety you are experiencing.
Occasionally, your problem might be more severe, especially when you have your sympathetic “trained” to orgasm.
Like a reflex reaction of blocking a punch when someone swings at you, you have trained yourself to orgasm quickly. In cases like this or if you just prefer a stronger, faster, and easier method of healing compared to the Natural Technique, you’re looking for EndurMax & ViaGrowth III.
This combination formula of natural herbs will help you reset your sympathetic reaction to sex. Herbs like dong quai and gardenia help to soothe the nerves, while also relaxing the muscles and tissues of the body and sexual organs. At the same time, other natural ingredients like avena sativa, damiana, and epimedium help to pump more blood into the penile vessels for a harder erection, more energy, and a longer-lasting endurance.
All these herbs in EndurMax & ViaGrowth III will help strengthen your parasympathetic nerves, which are used to counteract and control the sympathetic nerves and your urge to orgasm.
With more nutrients, energy, and a healthier body, you will definitely be able to last long enough for her to orgasm as well.
But realize that a woman’s body takes longer to stimulate and may not be able to orgasm through penile stimulation alone. So try giving her more foreplay and other means of stimulation along with your newfound sexual endurance. You’ll satisfy your girlfriend in no time.
Copyright 2002, Dr. YunBo Liu OMD. L.Ac. All Rights Reserved.
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