After we fooled around and attempted to have sex – I had lost my erection and I couldn’t get it back. I was devastated. I haven’t had the opportunity to make it up to her since, because she lives out of town.
Case Study #10475
Date: 10/12/2002
Dr. Lin,
My girlfriend and I partake in oral sex and lots of foreplay. Most of the time we have no problem, as I usually can achieve hard erections. But something happened the last time. After we fooled around and attempted to have sex – I had lost my erection and I couldn’t get it back. I was devastated. I haven’t had the opportunity to make it up to her since, because she lives out of town and I had to leave the next morning. So, for about 2 months I have done nothing but ponder the cause of it. I've been to doctors and they seem to just track the one occurrence as being nothing but anxiety. I turned to heavy masturbation to try and reassure myself of my ability. I did it purely because I felt I needed as many erections as I could get, even though I didn't feel like masturbating. I’ve noticed that some symptoms have started to affect me; fuzzy vision, ringing ears, urinary problems, occasional stomach pains and insomnia, which leads me to believe that I have been masturbating way too much. I have been doing it for about 7 years, ever since I was 12. My question to you is how can I remedy this problem without the use of any medical drugs? Any advice would be great.
Dr Lin’s Response:
I realize that long distant relationships can be difficult, so I can only imagine how troubling the last couple months have been. The good news is that you are simply experiencing a common sexual exhaustion symptom. It seems that you masturbate quite a bit, but you’ve only recently gone completely out of control with it. No matter, long distance relationships can be very draining sexually simply through self-pleasuring. It is true. But it doesn’t seem like you’ve done any permanent damage, at least not with your penis. As far as your relationship, I cannot say. You have exhausted your sexual energy through masturbation (even more so now), and your penis has become accustomed to needing heavy stimulation in order to achieve an erection.
You still are very young, and you should be able to heal your body swiftly and successfully by changing only a handful of things.
First, you should rest your body. This means now masturbation or sexual physicality for 3 weeks. This will re-charge your sexual engine.
Next, you must change your diet by increasing the intake of fresh vegetables (or Vegetable juices), fruits (fruit juice) and seeds/nuts/beans to cool down your prostate, which is the organ that has been overworked through your sexual longing. Also, partake in exercises everyday to burn your testosterone in your muscles rather than your prostate.
Finally, you should begin taking our herbal supplement LastLonger, over the course of the next 3-6 months to aid in replenishing your body. In no time you’ll be back to the sexual craftsmen that you were before. Please update me on your progress.
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