His previous wife denied him of sex for years - they only had it once a month if he was lucky. Now that we are together, he has a tough time maintaining an erection...I just wonder if this is something that we will eventually be fixed on its own with me showing him patience and understanding?
Case Study #10370 Date: 8/24/2002
My sexual partner is 45 years old. His previous wife denied him of sex for years, according to him – they only had it once a month if he was lucky. And it was awful sex as she always wanted him to orgasm as soon as possible. Now that we are together, he has a tough time maintaining an erection because of his past issues. He’s usually able to get it up, as they say, during foreplay, but loses it before penetration. I just wonder if this is something that we will eventually be fixed on its own with me showing him patience and understanding? Or if medication or surgery is a better route? Any advice that you might offer will be deeply appreciated.
Dr Lin’s Response: Date: 8/25/2002
Thank you for writing in and for showing your partner this love and patience. Both will go a long way on his recovery. I’m sure that his former wife did mentally, physically and psychologically to train him to not enjoy sex and to get it over as fast as possible. However, having said that, he should have natural instincts that come into play when he has a new skilled lover such as yourself. Which makes me believe that he could be suffering from a weak erection which results in his premature ejaculation as well. He shouldn’t be ashamed of this, this is typically a middle-aged man’s problem. Most go through this and many recover with my proven techniques and herbs. So fear not. Middle aged and senior men's brains have a tendency to have their acetylcholine/parasympathetic nervous systems become weaker, which effects the strength and energy of their erections. I’m sure the amount of sexual stress that was placed on him in his years with his ex-wife, have a lot to do with it. When you give him oral sex or practice foreplay, he doesn’t have to deal with this sexual stress, but when he tries to return the favor with intercourse – this is where his brain switches the nervous functions from the parasympathetic mode to the sympathetic.
I highly recommend him taking a steady dose of myViapal-hGH-M (3-010), which will help him erect much harder and last much longer. He should also mix in a combination of DopaFibra to his ViaPal-hGH-P, which will lighten up the brain's acetylcholine, dopamine and serotonin nervous systems at the same time.
After he re-accustoms his body to act normal, if he’s interested – he should look into my Sexual Chi-Kong method. This is a proven and safe technique that the two of you can practice together to make love making impossibly great for the both of you. He will love sex again, retain harder erections and ejaculate like he was in his 20’s. Plus he will last much longer – way beyond simply penetrating you. I wish you the best of lock. Happy love making!
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