Case Study #8587
Date: 10/25/1999

My boyfriend is 47 years old and I am 41. He drinks quite a bit and I'm pretty sure that this is part of the problem. He complains that he has a problem "feeling" anything because I am "too wet". I have had four children, but I really don't think this is a big part of his problem. I think that he just can't get hard enough to achieve the "feeling" that he is describing he needs.

Another problem I believe is the fact that he seems to be obsessed with the Playboy channel. He is constantly watching it and almost always insists that he needs to be watching while we are having intercourse or when I am giving him oral sex! Any suggestions. The problem I would like answered for me is: There are many products on the market for vaginal dryness, but my problem is just the opposite; is there anything for my particular problem? Thank You!

Dr Lin’s Response:

It is his erection problem. When men lose their erection capacity, they usually blame women for the loosened vagina, which was fine when they had a hard erection. He needs the visual and auditory stimulations from the pornography to help his erection. He is experiencing the typical middle agers problem - weak erection and its resulted premature ejaculation.

Long-term drinking has damaged his liver function. A deactivated liver function will promote aromatazation that converts testosterone into estrogen. No testosterone burst equals no erection. He doesn’t have much left for erection and intercourse. He must quit drinking, and take Power E to help him out. You are in the golden age of your sexual life, very passionate, wet and hot! You are in the peak of your sexual mountain. There is nothing to blame you! You are a perfectly complete woman. Don't attempt to destroy yourself. Love your body and love yourself.

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