The extra amount of stress and anxiety he’s experiencing just may be responsible for his premature ejaculation and seminal leakage.
Question:
First, I would like to tell you how much I appreciate your work, which is helping many patients across the world, especially in North America. Actually, I heard about your site from my friends, which you have treated and now they are in excellent sexual condition. Now, let’s come to the point.
I am a 32-year-old male and within the next few months I am going to get married. And for the last couple of months I have had sexual leakage. I mean most of the time my undergarments get wet, even without any sexual desire and I have a very short ejaculation time. Because of all this, I feel so weak and tense.
Now my fear is I only have a couple of months left until my marriage and I haven't done anything about it. Doctor, you are my only hope to improve my sexual desire and cure this problem.
Answer:
It seems your upcoming marriage has you extremely tense and anxious.
And since your problems have only occurred recently, it is most likely a direct effect of it. Stress and anxiety can have very real physical effects upon the body and its sexuality. What your body is feeling is called the “fight or flight” response.
It’s the reaction our bodies take when it perceives a challenge of any kind. In your case, it’s your forthcoming nuptials. In the fight or flight state, your sympathetic nerves are stimulated more than usual in order to pump your heart faster to provide more blood flow, increase your breathing to provide more oxygen, and increase adrenalin levels to provide more energy.
All of which will help you concentrate on your task and give you the added strength to do what needs to be done.
However, these same sympathetic nerves also induce the urge to orgasm and the release of semen from the prostate. By having your nerves stimulated more than normal, it causes you to ejaculate in a much shorter amount of time.
This sensation is also being carried on to your prostate when you’re not sexually excited, which partly explains the seminal leakage. Basically, your prostate has become a little trigger-happy and any intense stimulation – whether it’s sexual or not – is causing you to release semen right away.
Once the wedding is over and your nerves have calmed down and gone back to normal, your ejaculation time and seminal leakage should also go back to normal. However, if you want to know what you can do before that, there are a few options for you.
But first, have you started masturbating more than usual in order to calm down and relax during this exciting time in your life?
Excessive masturbation could also explain why you ejaculate more quickly and discharge fluids. Masturbation causes the sympathetic nerves to react more quickly. Add that to your stress and anxiety and you’re just adding fuel to the fire. Also, masturbation can weaken the PC muscles and parasympathetic nerves, which are responsible for holding back and controlling the impulses from your sympathetic nerves.
In essence, you’ve not only weakened the dam, but added more water on the other side. The obvious solution here is to stop masturbating. At the very least, reduce it down to the frequency you had before.
If your body is too weak to repair itself at this point or if you want to speed the recovery process along, I suggest using EndurMax & VitaLife 3. The ingredients contained in this natural blend will help to delay orgasm and stop premature ejaculation. Your parasympathetic nerves, PC muscles, and prostate will all be strengthened to provide you with more control during sex.
The nutrients and vitamins will also help increase your sex drive and sexual endurance for more enjoyable sex.
The other thing you should work on is reducing the amount of stress you have during this time. Besides the wedding, try to take on less at work. Eliminate unnecessary social engagements until the wedding is over.
Take more time for yourself. Make the time to recharge your batteries and reset your sympathetic nerves. If you keep the tension in your life running this high for too long, your problems will only get worse. Hope all this helps you. Good luck with the marriage.
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