My husband of 30 years left me nearly two years ago (the best thing he ever did for me I might add). I now have a boyfriend and we have been together for just over a year. It is a wonderful relationship; I love him very much and he loves me. I have always had difficulty reaching orgasm unless I stimulate myself during intercourse and the problem seems to be getting worse.
Case Study #9440 Date: 4/26/2001
Reader 1:
Hi, I have a problem reaching orgasm without the use of a vibrator. My husband of 30 years left me nearly two years ago (the best thing he ever did for me I might add). I now have a boyfriend and we have been together for just over a year. It is a wonderful relationship; I love him very much and he loves me. I have always had difficulty reaching orgasm unless I stimulate myself during intercourse and the problem seems to be getting worse. I feel completely fulfilled regardless with my boyfriend (with my ex-husband, I always felt "let down" even though I did orgasm, it was not emotionally fulfilling). My boyfriend would love to be able to bring me to orgasm. Is there anything I can do? Does using a vibrator increase the problem?
Reader 2:
I am unable to climax with sexual intercourse or oral sex. I have to use a vibrator on the highest speed to climax. I have had orgasms from oral and sexual intercourse in the past. I am also very dry in my vagina. I cannot reach an orgasm from manual masturbation either. Help!
Dr Lin’s Response:
The vibrator has abraded your urethral spongy tissues and nerves in the clitoris and G-spot. You must realize that no penis can compete with the rigidity and stimulation rate of the vibrator. Scar tissues have been developed to desensitize your clitoris and G-spot. Also, your testosterone is dropping very quickly at the age of 54. You need EvaMax V to rejuvenate your brain, neuro-endocrine, liver, cardiovascular and kidney functions and help you repair the abraded nerves and erect your clitoral and G-spot (urethral spongy tissues) for a sexual orgasm during sex.
You also need Power E to power his penis for a harder, longer lasting erection. Also, you need a simultaneous stimulation on your clitoris and G-spot/Epicenter with my Finger Pliers method to bring you over the edge of orgasm peaks. Using the Finger Pliers Method with VIP Cream to massage your G-spot and clitoris daily will accelerate the healing process of the damaged nerves and tissues. Special Note for Reader 2:
Vaginal dryness is a common problem for middle-aged and senior women due to insufficient estrogen production. EvaMax I will rejuvenate your brain/pituitary, liver, adrenal and ovarian functions for a balanced testosterone-estrogen ratio (controlled by the liver function) and its ingredients DHEA and androstenedione will be converted to both testosterone and estrogen in the tissues with the liver enzymes. ViaGrowth IV will rejuvenate the entire body’s functions. VIP Cream will directly supply the vaginal/urethral spongy tissues with DHEA, androstenedione, plant estrogen (isoflavones), L-Arginine and Yohimbe. L-Arginine and Yohimbe that will help the local parasympathetic nerves erect the urethral spongy tissues - the clitoris, G-spot and Epicenter for more orgasms. VIP Cream can do the emergency job for you. Healing your damaged nerves and re-powering your brain/neuro-endocrine and liver functions will bring your orgasm back.
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