I am 44 years of age and only have had one orgasm while making love. All the other times I have had to struggle doing it myself or with my husband’s help and sometimes even with all of that, it takes me forever, even with a vibrator. By the time I am done getting to an orgasm, my legs hurt so bad that the next day I can hardly walk. Can you help me or give me some advice?
Case Study #9606 Date: 8/7/2001
I am 44 years of age and only have had one orgasm while making love. All the other times I have had to struggle doing it myself or with my husband’s help and sometimes even with all of that, it takes me forever, even with a vibrator. By the time I am done getting to an orgasm, my legs hurt so bad that the next day I can hardly walk. Can you help me or give me some advice?
I am so tired of living this way. I am fed up and sick of myself.
Dr Lin’s Response:
It seems your testosterone and DHEA levels are too low to power your orgasm. While your testosterone and DHEA levels are too low, application of a high-speed vibrator to your delicate clitoris and G-spot tissues is very destructive. It seems you have extensively damaged the branch nerves of L10-T2 running into your legs and feet. Your inner legs and feet must be hurt very much when you attempt to have an orgasm with the high-speed vibrator. You have to repair the damaged nerve endings in the clitoris and G-spot, and perhaps the nerves passing both sides of your vagina to your inner legs and feet. You have to remember that your vaginal lining is getting thinner as your age. It is very easy to damage the nerves under the vaginal lining. In addition to nervous damage, there are scar tissues formed above the damaged nerves. The more you use the vibrator, the thicker the scar tissues are. Eventually, your clitoral and G-spot nerves won't respond to the stimulation of the vibrator. EvaMax III can help you out.
EvaMax III can elevate the brain's dopamine and acetylcholine nervous system to heal and restore the entire body’s functions including sexual orgasm. Also, take a one or two week break from the vibrator to let your damaged nerves heal themselves. Apply the finger pliers massage to both sides of your clitoral shaft and urethra with VIP Cream to accelerate healing.
The Finger Pliers Massage with VIP cream will help you dissolve and soften the scar tissues gradually. In a severe condition, it requires 3-6 months to solve this problem. The Finger Pliers Massage can trigger your sexual orgasm when you are stimulated at the maximum safe speed, 2.5 strokes per second.
Note: The vibrator stimulation rate must be less than the maximum heart rate, about 150 beats per minute or 2.5 strokes per second. The heart must pump faster than the vibrator in order to supply enough hormones, oxygen and neuro-nutrients to the vibrated tissues and nerves; otherwise, the vibrated tissues and nerves will be starved to fatigue and then be damaged.
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